Finding Love Again After The Loss Of My Husband

CORAL SPRINGS, Fla. - Nov. 18, 2013 - PRLog -- I thought I would never love anyone again and I was at peace with that. How could someone ever love me again after all I have been through? No one was going to ever love me like my husband did.

I spent the first year and half after my husband died getting used to my new life. I did not even think about dating. I didn’t want anyone else. I got upset when people told me that I was too young to be alone for the rest of my life. They told me that I deserved to find happiness again. I learned a lot about myself during that time. I realized that I could take care of myself and that I was stronger than I thought I was. http://thegoodnewsis.com/Articles/when-my-husband-died

I thought I was happy but I knew that there was something missing in my life. I found myself wanting someone to spend time with. I missed having someone special in my life. I heard about all of those dating sites but I was afraid if what I would find. I heard from friends that there are a lot of strange men out there.

I finally got up the courage to sign up on Match.com and JDate.com. I took some nice pictures of myself and created a profile. I was amazed at the response I got. I didn’t think anyone would want to meet me. http://thegoodnewsis.com/Articles/is-it-too-soon

I went out with about eight or nine guys before meeting the right one. I was waiting for that spark and until I found it I wasn’t going to settle. I starting talking to my boyfriend on the phone and soon realized that we had a lot in common. He had a great sense of humor and we had a lot in common. I couldn’t wait to meet him.

When I first met him there was definitely a spark. He was better looking than his picture and he had a great personality. We started spending a lot of time together and I knew it was time to come off of the dating sites. I wanted to see where this relationship was going to go. http://thegoodnewsis.com/contents/How-It-Works

I am not sure when I first realized that I was in love with him. All I knew was that when I wasn’t with him I missed him and I loved the time we spent together. I felt guilty for having these feelings for someone other than my husband.

The good news is that life does go on and you can find love again and it does not take the place of the love you lost. I will always love my husband.