Keep Your Pants On! This Book Could Save Your Marriage

Aug. 24, 2011 - PRLog -- While many books promise to teach you how to repair a relationship after cheating, “Keep Your Pants On: Preventing Infidelity in Your Marriage,” is for anyone who has even the tiniest thoughts of cheating on their partner. Infidelity is the number one cause of breakups and divorce. This new book by Albuquerque therapist Kelly Chicas shows you what to do to PREVENT cheating in the first place. And it works.

"Reading Kelly Chicas’s book could save your marriage," says Bill O'Hanlon, Oprah guest and author of “Rewriting Love Stories” and “Love is a Verb.” “As a marriage and family therapist, I often saw the aftermath of affairs, but few people came to me when they were tempted for help to prevent affairs.”

And it already has, say Peter and Nadine, a couple helped by the methods and exercises in “Keep Your Pants On.” “We knew that we were on the brink of something dangerous – this book has helped bring us back from what could have been a disaster.”

Have YOU ever thought about having an affair? Chances are you have, and you’re not alone, explains Chicas, a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC), a Certified Relationship Specialist (CRS), Board Certified (NCC) and a Licensed Relationship Coach, who developed the book after helping her therapy clients deal with this issue. “The number of relationships that are affected by affairs is staggering, and many relationships and marriages never recover from the complete destruction in trust and confidence.”

“Keep Your Pants On: Preventing Infidelity in Your Marriage” will help anyone considering an affair get really clear about what they want and need in their relationship. This book can actually prevent an affair from happening by leading readers through a series of action steps that are proven to reduce the influences that can cause an affair. Featuring RSS (Relationship Secret Strategies), Keep Your Pants on reveals:

•   How to overcome cheating thoughts and stop before “the point of no return”
•   Ways to uncover the influences of pain, pleasure and awareness
•   The method to determine your “5C Plan for Reconnection”

Advance reader praise for “Keep Your Pants On:”

“Kelly Chicas doesn’t pull any punches. She lays it on the line with real examples of how things can get out of control in a marriage even when people love each other and want their marriage to work. Couples who follow her proactive suggestions throughout the book are sure to avoid devastating threats to their relationship.” Syble Solomon, creator of Money Habitudes™

“In this social media age, every husband and wife should read ‘Keep Your Pants On!’ Today’s wired spouses are more susceptible to infidelity than most people realize. Because of how easy it is to reconnect digitally with former exes and past emotional attachments, many marriages are just 2-3 clicks away from experiencing the pain and turmoil of an emotional or physical affair. ‘Keep Your Pants On’ may make all the difference with your online and real-time relationships.” K Jason and Kelli Krafsky (The Social Media Couple), co-authors of Facebook and Your Marriage, bloggers at Techlationships.com

“Keep Your Pants On: Preventing Infidelity in Your Marriage” is available online at http://www.keepyourpantsonbook.com and from Amazon. Visit Facebook: Keep Your Pants On and Twitter: @PantsOnbook

About Kelly Chicas
Kelly Chicas is the owner and Clinical Director of Albuquerque Family Counseling LLC, where she specializes in sexual issues and addictions, affair recovery, and infidelity, separation, divorce and co-parenting issues. Her advice and expertise as a relationship expert is also frequently featured in the Albuquerque Journal, SAGE, Boomer, Psychotherapy Finances, Goodtherapy.org, Yourtango.com, Yahoo, EzineArticles, and on television. She is also a topic expert contributor for Goodtherapy.org. and Yourtango.com. Chicas is also an instructor at the University of New Mexico and Webster University.

For more information and interviews, contact Kelly Chicas at 505-974-0104 or visit http://www.keepyourpantsonbook.com.