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Follow on Google News | Understanding How to Not Enable an AddictSentiment aside, life is better when someone close to you, who is an addict, is recovering and getting better. You should not gratify their behaviour, attitude and wants because it might lead to a destructive path.
By: ARCA Johannesburg Of course, you have to assist them on their journey to recovery but you might be doing it the wrong way. Usually, assisting such individuals will fall into two categories. Either you are helping, or you are enabling the victim. And there is a thin line between these two. Lander, Howsare, and Byrne, in their 2013 study (https://www.researchgate.net/ In a substance abuse treatment and family therapy treatment improvement protocol (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/ Perhaps, the greater the gain, the greater the risks. In one of the family therapy models highlighted in the TIP, it was noted that family members of a victim may develop co-dependence thereby causing them to enable the victim's substance abuse. Gruber and Taylor in their research summary (https://www.researchgate.net/ The result of all these is an enabling environment where the family member: · Helps the victim buy or obtain their substances for a short-term objective or simply giving them the means · Pay bills accrued by the victim during the course of recovery and relapse or · Fully take up the victim's responsibilities thinking that it would help · Making empty promises—or threats—thinking it would discourage the victim but not following through with those threats Enabling a victim prevents him or her from seeing any reason to change since it shows that you will always be there. Quite all right, you should always be there. But being available should not in any way reduce the load of responsibilities the addict should carry. If you have been enabling a victim, then you need to stop by: 1. Being stern, but welcoming and approachable. You don't want to put off the victim because if they don't get what they want from you, they might look elsewhere. You simply want to prevent him or her from being dependent on you, but close enough to encourage a recovery. 2. Allowing the victim to take up responsibilities— There are many instances the victim will require help. For instance, you can offer to drive him or her to a destination. However, little responsibilities like buying his or her own toiletries, doing his or her own laundry, or even looking up schedule meetings should not be done by the family member. If possible, you should encourage the victim to take up work so that he or she can contribute to some expenses in the family. To many drug addicts, the meaning of responsibility is lost. Teaching them will prevent an enabling environment 3. Establishing rules, explaining and keeping to them. It is important that there are boundaries or rules. Rules are important safeguards, and without them, people would do anything. For instance, you might explain to the victim why he should not come home late at night. You should set boundaries to buying drinks or giving the victim money or a loan. Questions About ARCA's Treatment? We offer 100% confidential substance abuse assessment and treatment placement tailored to your individual needs. End
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