Relationship breaking up - Relationship broke up - Getting Divorced - Divorcing ? Been Ditched

Aug. 2, 2009 - PRLog -- This is the type of wisdom and bulletins you can find on grownapart.com .

What I am Learning from Been Dumped !

If my happiness depends on what my ex says or do's then I am going to miserable for the rest of my lfe !!!

Problems have solutions facts do not. It is a fact that she is not coming back !

Live and let Live.

Heartache is worse pain but bearable.

That the pain does not last.

I am a worth while person.

That hating my ex does more damage to me.

The best way to get back at my ex is to be happy.

Life goes on.

Who my true friends are.

Jealousy is an awful emotion.

Hurt People Hurt People.

Effort not Eff-it Time to move on.

That my ex has the right to be happy.

The more I want things to be different the more I suffer.

That grief does not last for ever.

Heartache is awful but is made worse by asking "Why"

That having contact slows the healing process.

Not to try and run away from the feelings of grief and heartache. But to let them come and that they go when ready.

There is no quick fix for heartache.

I will be a better person for going through what I am going through now.

That the no contact rule works.

By resenting her I am punishing myself.

I cant think her to death but I can think myself into more misery.

That misery is optional.

There is more love out there.

If she was meant to come back she would of by now.

That sharing grief helps to heal it.

That acceptence does not mean I agree but I do myself a favour by not wanting things to be different.

That if my ex's intention was to ruin my life then I am a fool to let her !!!

That I am not bad or undesirable person.

As you sow you shall reap.

That it is Ok to laugh and joke about being dumped and the Ex .

That dogs never dump you .(Cats Do)

That peace of mind comes from living with unsolved problems,and not having things my own way.

That a problem shared is a problem halved.

There is life after The Ex.

That there are good days and bad days.

That nothing is permanent.

That life has to be lived a day at a time.

That I can put up with the feelings of grief and heartache for 24 hours.

That she will be my teacher and not my master.

That to find happiness I have to practice opposites.

What can I learn from this experience?

Life is to be enjoyed not endured.

Dust myself down and start all over again.

Who cares wins

Who dares wins.

That to feel is to heal.

To treat people with respect.

To listen and not to be critical.

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