How To Make Your Ex Miss You After A Breakup

NEW YORK - March 21, 2014 - PRLog -- In this write-up I am going to talk about how to make your ex miss you. Now, this is a relevant topic affecting a large segment of the society today.

At the moment, if you want to get back together with your ex, you are going to need them to miss you. That’s just a simple fact of life; I mean, if you want your ex back, you are going to have to get them to miss you. So, how do you make them miss you? That’s what I am going to write about in this article.

The first thing you need to understand is that you can’t convince your ex to get back together with you. There’s just no-matter of words, begging, pleading or trying to convince them that is going to make that happen. You are going to have to make your ex organically and naturally want to get back with you.

Now, If your ex miss you, that is going to stimulate those feelings of wanting to get back with you. Because they miss you, the way to ease that pain of missing you is to get back together.

So, how do you make them miss you? Well, one thing you need to understand is that the relationship ended because the attraction faded between you and your ex. I know that the attraction between you and your ex was there initially when you both were getting along really well. And then, over a period of time; whether it was a month or a year the attraction faded. It eventually faded to the point where your ex decided they no longer wanted to be with you.

So, how do you build back that attraction while again, make them to miss you? Now, let’s think about just more broadly; what makes you miss someone or something. Well, when you get used to having something or someone in your life, you become comfortable with them and it becomes part of your daily routing, they become integrated with your life, just like your ex was. You called them every day, maybe they woke up beside you every day, perhaps you saw them every night after work, whatever it was, they were a major part of your life and you were a major part of their life. So, in order to make them miss you, what do you have to do? Well, you have to disappear! Completely vanish off their radar! That’s the very best way to make someone miss you. Take a good look at it; they were comfortable having you around, they were so used to it, it became part of their life and then all of a sudden Boom! Cold-turkey, you’re gone. That’s really going to stimulate those feelings of missing you and that’s something you absolutely need if you want to get your ex back.

Remember, it’s got to be natural; making them miss you is the most natural way of doing that. So, how do you disappear completely? You should do it in a very practical way because you can’t just magically spoof be gone out of their life, it’s always more complicated than that. But, this is where the 30days no-contact rule comes in. Maybe you’ve heard of it before on the internet, you’ve read about it. Essentially, what the no-contact rule entails is that it basically means for the 30days after your breakup you don’t talk to your ex at all. Certainly, there is a few complications with that in very rare cases where it may not be appropriate. Although, generally speaking the 30day no-contact rule is something you want to have to do after the breakup if you want your ex to start missing you.

There is some science behind this and I’m not making all this up. The science says generally speaking, after a breakup, considering the duration of the relationship, how bad the breakup was and how serious the relationship was, there will be a peak of those feelings of missing your ex occur around 3 weeks after the initial breakup; that’s to assume you are using this no-contact method of course. If you are not doing that they won’t have the chance to develop those feelings of missing you. But, if you apply the no-contact strategy for 30 days, then around 3 weeks is the peak of those feelings, your ex is going to be missing you like crazy as they haven’t heard from you or talked to you in 3 weeks. And even if things were a little rocky towards the end of your relationship, trust me they are going to be missing having you around their life.

Now, there’s another element of making your ex miss you by using the no-contact rule which you also need to understand. And that’s the fact that making your ex miss you at the same time also helps to make your ex let go of some of the negative memories they have of you and your former relationship. Overtime, as they begin to miss you and approach that peak of missing you; they will start to let go of some of the negative memories and they will start to forget on a subconscious level why they decided to breakup with you in the first place. In addition to dropping some of the negative feelings and forgetting some of the reasons why they wanted the breakup, they will always hold on to some of the nostalgic happy memories which will come back to surface when they are missing you. This should make them think and focus on the positive aspect and that’s great because you want them back into a relationship with you as they are forgetting the bad parts and they’re remembering the good parts. So, that’s another advantage of making your ex miss you. It is that those feelings will be even stronger and if you can make them miss you so badly that it’s just killing them inside and they really need to sniffle that pain and heartache, then maybe they will get back together with you. And that certainly does happen sometimes if you were so close when you broke-up and then you apply the 30 days no-contact rule, they miss you so much that in order to just sniffle that pain they decide well let’s get back together and that will solve all my problems so I don’t miss them anymore and all of that.

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Applying Psychological Tactics To Reconcile With An Ex

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