My Ex Hates Me, How Do I Get Him or Her Back

May 5, 2014 - PRLog -- Most of us never fully realize the value of something we have, until we lose it. And so it is with relationships. Only after a current love becomes an ex do we realize all the things we could have done - or shouldn't have done - to save the relationship....

You sure made some huge mistakes...

Stop blaming your ex, it's time to seriously look yourself in the mirror and say "buster, where did I go wrong", and then take it from there. So you can start by figuring out what it was that made your ex dump you. There was some reason your ex picked you in the first place. And then something happened which made your ex change his or her mind. Figure out what that 'something' was, fix it and let your ex know.

Your ex liked you for a reason... until...

Once upon a time, your ex liked you. While the reasons may be many, you slowly took away their attraction by doing bad things and having bad habits. But all you have to do now, is reverse everything, by becoming the person they originally liked. Maybe it was the way you look, or the way you spend your time. Get a new wardrobe, a makeover and a new personality. Be likeable and charming and try to make your ex think you're hot. That should take care of all the attraction issues.

Social butterflies get attention...

It's no surprise that people who are "social butterflies" often get noticed and instantly command the attention of those around them. You can do the same thing, and get your ex noticing you. Another area where you could make a few changes would be the social calendar and your activities. Maybe your ex hates the thought of having to make nice with your family and old college buddies. Maybe the whole town is depressing to your ex.

Crunch time...

In the crunch time, you need to really consider changing. So make an offer to your ex - that you're willing to make the changes necessary and you can start fresh anywhere your ex wants. A change of atmosphere will do wonders for a near-dead relationship. You could also start taking an active interest in whatever your ex likes. Maybe you never got up in the morning, while your ex goes jogging everyday. So go buy a pair of Nikes. If your ex loves fancy restaurants while you enjoy roadside stands, put on a nice suit and start drinking champagne instead of beer.

Get the common ground...

You won't get through to your ex, unless you can find some common ground, but the above tips will help you do that fast. Once your ex realizes that you're willing to find common ground where you can enjoy each other's company, it gets a lot easier, and if your ex likes you, it's a good place to start.

A simple way to find out what's really going on is to talk to your ex's friends and family. There's a reason why you broke up - because you didn't understand each other anymore, and you barely knew what was going on in your ex's life. Talking to friends and family also has the additional benefit that they will put in a good word for you with your ex, and if your ex has any feelings at all left for you, that should be motivation enough for you two to take another shot at it.

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