Can My Ex And I Be Friends? How This Can Help You Get Him Back for Good

April 4, 2014 - PRLog -- Your ex boyfriend wants to be friends. It's a far cry from what you ultimately want, which is to be his girlfriend again. You're torn about whether or not you should agree to be just friends with a man you're still so much in love with. You'll find that anyone you ask about this will have a different opinion. Some friends may tell you that you need to avoid falling into the friendship trap if you want more. They're wrong. Becoming friends with an ex boyfriend is actually one of the most effective ways to reconnect romantically with him.

The fact that your ex boyfriend wants to be friends with you suggests something very significant. He obviously misses you and wants to be close to you again. If he was completely over you, he would have moved on and not wanted to remain in contact with you. The fact that he's the one initiating the friendship is something you should see as a step towards reconciliation. You do have to be mindful of a few things as you begin this new friendship with the man you love.

In order to use being friend with an ex boyfriend as a means to get him back, you have to allow him to set the tone for the friendship. Trying to contact him every day to talk, or asking him to hang out every weekend, will likely cause him to pull back significantly. He'll feel pressured into something more and he'll assume that you've misunderstood his intentions. There's a huge difference between being friends and being romantic partners. Don't ever lose sight of that.

Let him set the pace. Don't be the one to always call him. Let him do that first and then once he has, you can take your turn and call him the following week. Keep your conversations very neutral and easy going. Talk about what's going on in your life but steer clear of mentioning what's happening in your dating life. Doing so won't help matters any. If you're not dating anyone your ex boyfriend may think that's because you're waiting for him to come back to you. If you are dating someone, he'll take that to mean that you've moved on and he may do the same.

Throughout your blossoming friendship stay away from bringing up what happened between the two of you in the past unless he does first. Instead, focus on being supportive and caring. Show him that you're still someone he can have a great time with. Make him laugh and keep him interested by showing how self confident and mature you really are.

Over time he'll start to let his defenses down and he'll want to be even closer again. By then you'll have a new bond with him and your renewed romance will hit the ground running because it's based on a solid and mutually satisfying friendship.

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