Is Love Is Always Unconditional?

LAWRENCEVILLE, Ga. - Sept. 3, 2013 - PRLog -- By Kenneth Stepp

Love. We all either had it, want it, have it, or a combination of all of them. But what is love? Ever wonder that? I have been on a journey that I like to call "An Enlightenment". As someone that studies my fellow humans, I tend to self study more than anything. It helps me put one foot in front of the other on this path in front of me.

Consciousness? Now label me a Metaphysical whacko and run. Or look at consciousness from my perspective. Look at what I study and the credentials they have as neuroscientists, neurosurgeons, and cardiologists. Real scientists with scholarly studies done scientifically. Surprisingly, there are many studies ongoing, some for the last ten years plus, with tens of thousands of cases in the books. These are people that had near death experiences. Let's take a look at why I'm talking about this in an article about love.

The most amazing thing about these cases is that they all described the same place. Different studies, in different countries, different religions. Cultures, ages, and backgrounds. Mathematically impossible to fake. The numbers alone move these from compelling to conclusive.

The place the describe is wonderful. Every study have smilier questions. One is "how long were you there? And almost all answer with one word, Forever! Wow! If they were gone one minute or several days. Same answer. I'll list the highlights that make me think about the amazing place, that I will call Heaven.

* There is no time or space there

* God is everywhere. No gender, visage, or even name. Just omnipotent

* There is no language there, none is needed

* It is home, not this place

* It is more real that here

* We know everything there

* Everyone feel loved unconditionally. It's known

* Everyone knows they are accepted

* Everyone feels amazing

* No body presence or no thought of it

* No one wants to leave

* Hyper-Real is how they try to explain it

* Colors, smells, and feel are more vibrant

* Heavenly music is reported by some. No words can describe it

There is so much more. To date, I've studied this for over four months. It makes far more sense to me. But doesn't have to work for you. What they all agree on is that it is all about love. Those that go there and come back are forever changed. They chase love, not things. None fear dying anymore. They change almost completely. Most believe we are only here to learn how to love. This means most of us are really messing this up badly.

It seems we have humanized love like we have so many other wonders here. And we did it with adjectives. Yep. Adjectives have degraded love so much there should be another word used instead of love.

Love endures, love forgets, forgives, and remains

Placing a word in front of love negates the meaning completely. Let's take a look at just a couple. Any of us that have a history of Bible teaching will remember the various versions of love taught there. That looks to be more humanization to me. I won't go there. Instead, I'll keep it simple.

Friendship Love

Nothing unconditional here. Adding the word Friendship to it conditions it within the context of a specific relationship. This being friendship. Most are seasonal at best. Some friendships do last. I have one friend that has been a great friend since I was nineteen years old. But we have had our ups and downs. But the friendship stays intact somehow.

Romantic Love

Ah, romance. We all love it don't we? Nothing unconditional about this one in the least. Becoming single after twenty seven years with the same person teaches me that. Millions of single again people all with one thing in common. 100% of them have failed 100% of the time with romantic love. The majority still wants to go for it again. Me. I'm one of these hopeful people. I figure that at my age, if I join for twenty seven years agin, maybe I'll die and never be single again. Finally making it to the enzone.

Love

Yep. One word. No adjective needed. Love is unconditional. It's as simple as that. There are twelve people on Earth I love unconditionally. Five are my children, three are my granddaughters, and four are people not related to me. But like the others. I gave them my heart. That is an unconditional love. Two I married, and two I almost married, one when I was 32 (she was 22), the other since becoming single again. And I will always love them.

Enlightenment is a funny thing. Alone time has brought me to a place of knowing. This is beyond feeling. It isn't something that feeds my self interests. I truly love them. No conditions, no friendship, or romantic component needed. We don't even have to talk. That unconditional love will always be there. I'd lay my life down in a second for any of these twelve. No questions asked, no conditions. They can't hurt me, hate me, or be far enough away from me. I will always love them. Love is always unconditional until we use a descriptive word to condition it.

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