Powerful Women Want Their Men To Take Charge In The Bedroom

July 5, 2012 - PRLog -- Poughkeepsie, NY (July 5, 2012) - According to the SBA women are starting businesses at a rate of 4 to 1 over men.  Women make over 85% of all financial decisions for the household.  So, although women have acquired all this power in the workplace and in the household they don’t want to be in charge in the bedroom, they want their men to show their passion, romance  and lust, in a take charge way.  
According to Frank De Raffele, co-author of, Business Networking and Sex: Not what you think! (Entrepreneur Press 2012), women are getting stronger but don’t want all the control.  De Raffele’s book was based on a survey of over 12,000 men and women from every populated continent.  One of the findings showed that women are more relational both at work and in their intimate relationships.  “Women are becoming more powerful in the workplace and  are the decision makers of the household but when they are home they want to be pampered, appreciated, lusted after and ultimately want their men to take control in their lovemaking.”, states De Raffele.  This is not surprising with all the responsibilities that women juggle compared to men.  Work, kids, household, food, her family, his family; are just some of her juggling balls.  To have the sex ball as their responsibility too; it becomes a little too much pressure and stress.  
 When men complain about their sex life it is usually about frequency.  When women complain it is about the lack of romance, lust and passion. They feel they are being used, instead of desired.  If men take charge they will not only have sex more frequently but their lovers will be more sexually open.  
 Women are powerhouses in the world of family and business.  Years ago women would complain that he was, too tired, for sexual relations after a long work day.  Today, women need to be motivated.  They don’t want to have to feel it is up to them to stimulate their man.  If he makes her feel good emotionally she will want to have sex and not feel obligated and ultimately, used and cheap.
 According to De Raffele there a few simple things men can do to be more take charge and at the same time inspire their lover to want to have sex.  First: Ask about her day and listen to the good and bad. Just listen.  Second: Be romantic through soft touch and caress: her arm, hand, lower back, maybe a kiss on the neck while making dinner. Third:  Tell her how good she looks. Be specific. Just saying you look hot is not as good as, ‘This top you are wearing is very sexy.’  Fourth:  When ready to make your advance, kiss her; deeply and passionately. Show her you love her through kiss.  Turn her on first, then take charge.  

Frank De Raffele is available for questions and live interviews. He is a New York Times Best Selling Author and this is his third book.  Frank is one of the top speakers in the USA, Canada, Europe and Asia.  He can be reached at Frank@ProActiveLC.com or you may call him at (914) 489-6165.