How to Get Over a Break Up - Tips to Get Your Life Back

Oct. 9, 2011 - PRLog -- She did it. She really did it. The woman that you were totally in love with, the one that you would do anything for without giving it a second thought... dumped you. Now, here you are, a broken shell of who you were just a little while ago and you want to know how to get over her. More than that, you want to know how to get your life back. They say that moving on from a break up can be one of the biggest challenges that a man can face. They are right. It can be.

However, it does not have to be as drastic and as dire as it ends up being for most men. There are ways to get over a break up that can make things seem a lot easier, even though it will never be totally easy. The cool thing is, once you DO get over the break up and get your life back, you will be able to look back at things and see how it made you stronger in the end. Though it may not seem like it yet... that is actually priceless.

Here's how to get over her and get your life back:
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1) Take down any pictures that you have of her, seal up the memory box.

There's no use in reminding yourself every single day that she is no longer a part of your life. Keeping the reminders of her around is just going to make things worse for you, and it is going to hold you in a relationship limbo... where a part of you wants to move on and another part of you is hanging on to the past.

2) Limit the amount of lip service time that you give her.

By that I mean, don't drone on and one with your friends and anyone who will listen about how she did you wrong and how much you miss her. It's healthy to do a little bit of talking about what you feel inside, but too much is just that - too much. Keep a limit on how much you talk about her, positive or negative.

3) Use this time as a starting point to build up a better life for yourself.

You know what most people do with their lives? The same thing every single day. Use the break up as a way to motivate yourself to make your life BETTER so that you don't do the same things over and over again. Sometimes, a break up can be perfect motivation to challenge yourself and achieve new goals.

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Now, what if you don't want to get over your ex girlfriend, you just want to find a way to get her back? Is that even possible?

Here you go: http://geturgirl.com/index.php?p=1_6_Get-Your-Ex-Girl-Back