How Do I Deal with a Passive Aggressive Husband?

Feb. 25, 2011 - PRLog -- A couple’s communication style can enhance or destroy the love relationship. When one of them -usually the husband- uses passive aggressive communication, there is a break in the reciprocal trust necessary to sustain the marriage relationship alive and growing. Frustration, anger and increasing emotional isolation are the results of this passive aggressive behavior.

Being in situations where our basic human needs are submerged creates a long term impact on our lives. Think about a couple’s basic needs: the need to have your own views validated, even if the other has a different view; the need to have feelings and experiences acknowledged as real by the person they love most.

The larger rate of divorces happens because of issues of broken communication and loss of reciprocal trust.

Living with a passive aggressive person can shake your self-esteem and make you doubt your own survival skills. Step by step, you begin denying and forgetting your own capacity. Giving in to his pressure and expectations strongly influences your life, and changes your perspective about yourself, your identity and life purpose. Having to choose from being emotionally dependent on him or enduring marital loneliness is not a healthy choice: you want to have self-efficacy and good company!

You’re probably asking yourself, “Where is all of my self-esteem hiding?” In every interaction where you give in to him and his wishes, you lose track of your own purposes, and get lost in the fog.

What follows is usually a loss of influence with others. Maybe your family, friends and acquaintances used to come to you for ideas of guidance across a range of issues. Now, they see that you can’t even help yourself!

Exactly at this moment, you need a support system that can provide you with a good degree of energy, enthusiasm and self-efficacy, as opposed to your PA husband who needs constant nurturing and reassurance from you to feel empowered and valued as person. At this very moment, you can probably imagine having a good coach to give you the precise lines to say and exact actions to take to heal yourself.

Who is going to provide you with strong inspiration to develop your own person? How are you going to learn the strategies to stop passive aggression and heal its damage on your self-esteem? Who will help you explore your needs, and recover a sense of “self-efficacy” to manage your life better?

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