Matchmaking in India can take a toll on mental health, Girl ends life after being rejected!

DELHI, India - May 28, 2022 - PRLog -- Once you turn 25 in India, the only goal you need to achieve in your life remains Shaadi, especially if you are a woman.  After a certain point in life, you are expected to get married and start a family. We as a society have come a long way when it comes to nation's development but our obsession with Shaadi remains the same.

Well, marriage is a sacred bond between the two individuals, but women always face more pressure to get married.  You are doing well in your career, taking independent decisions, making a lot of money – Oh that's all is fine – But Beta Shaadi Kab Karogi? Umar Nikal Jayegi?  Ache Ladke Nhi Milenge, Adjustment toh Karna padta hai and the list goes on. A shocking incident in UP, Girl ends her life after being rejected by suitors has raised a question on our Society's Soch?

What is 'Well – Settled' in India?

In India, someone doing really well in their career is not well –settled until you get a tag of married. After all, you are a woman and the ultimate goal of your life is to "Get Married and Take Someone else Khandaan Forward".  Matchmaking in India is another task. Factors like Looks, Bank Balance, Caste also plays an important role in bringing two people together. And one of the factors mentioned in the list became a reason for a girl to take her life.

* Girl Ends her life after being rejected by multiple suitors

* Why Matchmaking in India can take a toll on women's mental health?

We to need to Relearn the concept of Marriage

When you say Marriage – It means love, respect, companionship and equality. In an era, when women are excelling in every field and are their own queens, we need to stop judging them for their relationship status. Instead of feeding them with an idea that Shaadi  is the ultimate goal and you should be achieved till a certain, we should tell them – Get married when you are ready, when you find the right one, before loving someone else, love yourself, normalize the concept of finding love later in life and if you are happy Stay Single.

We need to teach our daughters – Late Marriage/ No Marriage is Better than Bad Marriage!

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