- Aug. 30, 2021
-- I want that thing, job, car, whatever! I want it now! I have to have it! I will be mad if I can't! Will that kind of behaviour get you the thing you want? Do you think that this is the way to achieve whatever it is you want? Or maybe there is another way? Are you curious? Let's check it then.
What battle do you fight? In life, you might have a plan of how you want it to look. What things, you want to have. What kind of car, house, job, partner. Where do you like to live. Things like that. It might be a very precise plan or just kind of like a sketch. Both ways are good. If it suits you, it is fine. Yet, no matter what is that plan of yours, it might feels annoyed or anxious, if the realisation goes slow. Too slow, as you might think. In this kind of situation, you might, in your annoyment, start fights with everything and everyone, who, in your opinion, is on your way to your success.
You might feel that, no matter what are you doing. Regardless of how much work do you put into some projects. Despite how much time do you spend on something, that suppose to should help you to get to your goal. No matter how much effort you put into something. Everything goes out of the window. All your doings feel useless. You might have a feeling of banging your head against the wall. Like fighting with windmills. This is a very frustrating situation. I know that very well. I was that kind of fighter myself. Always, no matter what I was doing, I felt like hitting the invisible wall.
Are you feeling the same? Like all planning, of how you would like to have your life and what you will do to have it. All your efforts, you put into the realisation of that plan, feels ineffective. It might also feel like fighting against the whole world. Or maybe even the universe. Like every being is either trying to make it harder or laugh at you. At your struggles. Do you know that feeling? But does it really have to be like that? Is that the only way for you to live? Do you want to believe in that? Seriously? What you can do to stop this mad circle?
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