Mental Health In A SubDom Industry - A Guide For Dommes

MANCHESTER, U.K. - June 16, 2020 - PRLog -- Healthy Boundaries and Mental Wellbeing - Play is fun, and therapy can be a challenge.

Be aware of yourself and others around you when enjoying adult fun in a consensual and sensual setting, whether in a private playspace or remote via video calling.

BDSM is NOT a substitute for therapy. Unfortunately, every Domme on earth could say this until they are blue in the face and, for some subs, it will still not compute. Blinded by their boners, some submissives will continue to heap unrealistic expectations on their Dommes, despite our pleas that we are not qualified and that we do not consent to it. But... therapy is hard work, and play is fun, so it's no surprise that some subs prefer to opt for the latter to fix their problems.

The Listening Dominatrix

On the contrary, I want you to understand that when the balance tips from 'healthy sharing' into 'unhealthy unloading', then the best and kindest thing for both of you, is to stick firm on your limits, and seek professional health. This is not a public service announcement - I want to invite you think of the nuance in these dynamics, and the global situation we all find ourselves in will affect that.

One of the secrets of being a wonderful Domme is creating a unique and intimate relationship with your submissive. This can be a powerful experience, for all involved. A mutually beneficial relationship build on trust, understanding, consent and empowerment, for both parties. Even though you may not even know the real name of your Dominant, you may feel closer to them than anyone else. They know your darkest desires and most shameful fantasies. You are already exploring your own limits and taboos, with them as your guide. The archetype of a Domme taps into so many important figures in our lives... they can simultaneously be a mother, a friend, a mentor... even a partner.

We are at once so many different things, and yet no one on it's own. UK, Manchester-based Mistress Lola invites you to get in contact - head on over to her homepage now.

https://lolaruin.com/

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