How Many Lies Are Too Many? How Many Do You Tell? How Many Should You Accept?

Four percent of the population is thought to have severe predatory behaviour issues. Learn how to spot liars, cheaters, con artists, narcissists, and psychopaths in your day-to-day life.
 
TORONTO - Nov. 20, 2013 - PRLog -- How many lies are too many?

Some would venture to say it depends what the lie is and why it was told. Are you trying to be kind? Are you trying to get away with something? Are you manipulating events to run in your favour?

Pretty much everyone lies every day. We lie to ourselves. Lying is something that seems to be somewhat accepted and even rewarded.

For these purposes, we can talk about every day people. You and me. People who work for a living and generally look forward to a peaceful and productive day. Generally, most people believe honesty is the best policy and don't go out of their way to lie unless it will spare someone's feelings in some way (yes, even cheaters.)

Then there are other people. We all know them. Are you in love with one of them?

If you are, you need to really look at your self and your life and know that you will never have peace and quiet nor the Truth. You can't save anyone. You can't rescue anyone. Just as no one can change you, you can't change that special person whom you love, and might even be married to. It's cold and harsh and the sooner you fully understand the concept of this reality, the easier it will be for you to understand how to create a life of meaning and honesty.

Liars always lie.

Never believe you are on the same team as the liar. The pathological liar lies to everyone equally. Just because you are the wife or husband or lover doesn’t mean that the liar is confiding in you and only lying to everyone else.

If you know your lover is lying to other people, you can be certain that he or she is lying to you.

If you’ve ever caught your lover in a lie, don’t believe it’s going to stop.

If you even suspect your sweetie of cheating, then believe your gut. A few red flags will reassure your gut feelings. Don’t wait for a full blown dramatic truth to be unveiled years later. The sooner you get out of the relationship, the better for your emotional and possibly, financial health.

A person who spins lies every day is not a person to trust. You will never be on the same team. You may even commit illegal acts together but your partner will turn on you if push comes to shove. You may be in the middle of being scammed yourself when you think you’re scamming someone else. Ever see the movie The Grifters about con artists scamming con artists including mother and son? What about Inception? Don’t believe just because you’re related or married or have a child together that you are immune to a lie or con.

Lying is a personality trait. You know people who lie. Sales people are great liars but the good ones keep the work at work. Do you want to be with someone who will never tell you the truth?

Liars are manipulators. Why are they lying? To get what they want, whatever that may be in that moment. They don’t care how their actions affect others. As long as they can steer the truth to how they want to fabricate it, they will.

A person who can’t keep his or her promises at the beginning of a relationship will only get worse as time goes on.

A person who lies has no respect for you or anyone else.

A person who lies can be dangerous to you in many ways including psychological, physical, and financial.

How Many Lies Are Too Many? by Victoria Summit is available in print and as ebook. http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00BGTGIRS/ref=s9_simh_gw_p351_d0_i1?pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_s=center-2&pf_rd_r=0PGSXMF1MJ073CYZBV02&pf_rd_t=101&pf_rd_p=1630083502&pf_rd_i=507846

The Gaslight Suvivor Series was created to help educate every day people about toxic people in their lives.

Evil never looks evil, or at least rarely does. But evil will set off red flags and gnawing gut feelings. The reality is, in modern society, too many of us don't trust our gut instincts.

Learn how to resist the siren song of the seductive charmer.

Learn how to spot the signs of the slippery con artist.

Learn how to set your own boundaries when it comes to who is allowed into your home and heart.

The Gaslight Survivor Series by Victoria Summit is available in print and in ebook form in most major online outlets.

100 Red Flags in Relationships

How Many Lies Are Too Many?

Dancing in the Gaslight

How Many Lies Are Too Many at Barnes and Noble: http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/how-many-lies-are-too-many-victoria-summit/1117358737?ean=9781484829691

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