Dating guru, author of The Tao of Badass, teaches: How to tell in 20 seconds if he/she wants you

Nov. 12, 2012 - PRLog -- If you asked 100 people between the ages of 20 and 35 about their recent interactions with the opposite sex, you would find a certain phrase pops up quite often: “I couldn’t really tell if he/she was that into me”.

It’s a common issue in dating and relationships, resulting in a lot of wasted energy on pointless conversations and hours of waiting in suspense for phone calls.

Revolutionary dating expert and author of The Tao of Badass, Joshua Pellicer, has come up with a potential solution to this problem. He has pinned down a precise step by step process for rapidly judging whether an interaction could lead to an enjoyable relationship, or whether it’s best to abandon ship and move on. An illustrated play by play attraction guide can be found here http://www.thetaoofbadass-hq.com as well.

The system has been written from a male perspective, but could be easily reversed to the female point of view.

How it works

1. Choose a woman you would like to start a conversation with

2. If she approaches you – that’s great – turn your chest and head toward her but don’t lean toward her yet. If you approach her – note whether she smiles at you or not. If yes, do the same as above with your body. If not, only turn you head toward her while you chat, and don’t face her with your body.

3. If she turns to face you with her body, incite the conversation with a playful banter line. If not, turn your head away from her for a moment, then turn back to continue and try a playful banter line. (Note: playful banter should be whatever comes into your head on the spot, ie friendly small talk. Only use memorized phrases if you are stuck and can’t think of anything to say)

4. The crucial point: if she smiles or laughs, this is a great sign and you should continue the conversation as she is probably attracted in you! If she still has not smiled once yet, try playful banter 1-2 more times, still maintaining the slightly stand-offish body posture from above. Still no smile? Move on, brother(politely)! She is not attracted to you.

It is important for many men to study such a precisely whittled down scientific process for communicating with women, such as can be found in Pellicer's controversial and ground breaking new book, The Tao of Badass. This is due to the vast majority of men frequently make devastating errors with their body language within the first few moments of a conversation. This can ruin the chances of building a good rapport, and eventually a relationship.

Further information and dating success stories featuring The Tao of Badass can be found at http://www.thetaoofbadass-hq.com