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Trivial arguments should not be grounds for divorce says Shropshire solicitor
Head of Family Law at Telford solicitors Martin Kaye LLP has backed a call to stop couples being allowed to divorce over trivial matters.
“What many people consider to be normal squabbling between a couple is often elevated to seem more serious, and everyday family difficulties can be exaggerated in a bid to prove either the husband or wife is guilty of unreasonable behaviour,” said Nadia. “If there is anything which is going to set a difficult tone right from the very start, it’s having to make allegations about how the other person has behaved. And in fact, in the cold light of day, most people agree that it takes two for a relationship to go wrong. They also see that it’s better in the long-run to focus their energies on the more important issues, such as the children and the finances.”
Nadia’s call comes on the back of a case where a woman whose husband of 20 years divorced her for unreasonable behaviour. “The woman appealed against the ruling and said her husband should never have been granted a divorce just because she threw out his packed lunches and took a fuse out of the washing machine. She said it was just normal squabbling between a husband and wife and not proper grounds for a separation, but the court rejected her appeal. This is unfortunately typical of the kind of evidence that is used to build up a case for unreasonable behaviour so that a divorce can be effectively rubber-stamped. It would be far better for couples to concentrate on resolving their differences in a more positive and constructive way, rather than creating an uncomfortable and confrontational setting from the outset”.
Martin Kaye’s family lawyers always discuss as the first meeting whether it is possible to save the relationship, and offer further advice about counselling and therapeutic agencies to try to help get the relationship back on track. They also look at all the options with you, not just divorce, to make sure you pursue the right course.
To read more about Martin Kaye’s divorce solicitors, visit http://www.martinkaye.co.uk/