Gay Marriage Is Natural and Normal - Why To Question That

March 11, 2012 - PRLog -- Gay Marriage is hardly ever an easy subject  for the religious, as someone is nearly always going to be offended by anything that's written about homosexuals, however; If the truth offends you, that's actually not a problem for anyone else, as most of us prefer the truth, for me truth's a religion that doesn't need a church.

Gay people are humans whom, maybe became averse (DUE TO ABUSE?)  to having sexual feelings toward 'straights' or maybe never developed heterosexual feelings at all, for whatever reason it is, perhaps it's a physical thing, maybe they just like to be gay- or perhaps they'll argue a genetic / chromosomal difference, whatever it IS that makes them NOT heterosexual - it clearly doesn't make them different in any OTHER way, from the rest of us, we are all made of the same skin, the same blood - except that some (not all) gays, do adopt and recognize a 'gay culture' and are mostly happy with that, as are most tolerant 'straight' folks.

A lot of religious people though, are causing hate-crime against Gay couples! Most  vociferously  here in the UK, it's the Catholic Church that seems to be the worst offender?  Yet it is apparently falling apart, due to claims of extreme child abuse, not just sexual. If you've read Paddy Doyle (Author of ' The God Squad' ) you'll know that there is blatant sadism involved, from nuns!

Critics seem to me to be  intensely jealous of gay people especially, for apparently being 'free' and for having fun? I doubt that's the real reason. Look at the prejudices and problems gay people have to face on a daily basis, most conscious people are aware of these, if you do look at 'gay problems'(do an online search with the adult-filter on!) you see its TRULY not all outrageous partying, it's actually too often a daily battle JUST to be accepted as A HUMAN BEING, for far, far too many people.

Why oh WHY should anyone EVER feel dejected and/ dehumanized for not wanting to have sex with the wrong person? Would you force a person to be raped for your religion, your preference? What does that say about  YOU?

Many religious people especially, find homosexuality 'unnatural' (actually it's been proven that it occurs in nature fairly consistently and is 'the norm' but - we DO know humans are not 'animals'!! - OK)

Religious people are often unable to accept that atheists, especially - whom are usually fairly well-educated, believe there is no 'god'- but that all 'gods' so far (10,000 gods + goddesses PLUS?) are purely man-made in order to take financial control from the population fairly easily (through fear 'of god') and that 'God' (maybe) ONLY proves to equal exploitation of the lesser - educated masses -  purely ONLY Big business and/ Cults?   Religious people assume they know what they are hurting without KNOWING what they are condemning.

It's also been explained that being Gay is no 'sin' if 'sins' don't exist! God forgives everything anyway?

Religious folks often take the moral high-ground, despite (often but not always) lesser education, they often believe they are superior to evolutionists.
Others adhere to the belief that so much care and thought was placed into religious text, by so very many people, that due to 'the' philosophy itself, it is worth living by these 'rules' and never breaking them. OK.

For a start, not all gay people are evolutionists nor science-fans nor non-religious, an example is, there is a massive Christian Gay community. Not all 'gay haters' are religious either, nor of one-religion, so what IS the actual problem some have with gay marriage? The Biblical text? Gay 'intolerance' happens in nearly all religion, doesn't it?
Well, we know in science, that (approx!) 99.9% of matter (stuff we are made of) is not measurable, or you could say, science can only measure 0.1% (approx) of material that we are made of.

There IS a god then? Not necessarily, no. Even if there is/was some god somewhere- it still doesn't mean there is a 'god who hates gay people'.
It's PEOPLE who dislike or are averse to other people, for whatever poor reasoning skills were pumped into them at school? Nobody loves everyone - do they? (unless they're a God or wish to emulate him/her?)

I saw, online, a religious couple discussing the 'filth' and 'dirt'  of homosexual sex, the depravity and the sadism associated with it. They had a point. I grew up in a very gay town and was sick to my stomach as a young teen, to think some really sweet guys I knew DID THAT stuff! (It was bad at times)

It didn't stop being my friends and I didn't stop loving them. I always wondered 'why' though and 'what a shame! HE'S SO CUTE!!' One of them wanted to have sex with me, him being bi-sexual. I had such a crush too. I didn't do 'the deed' as I was only 16 and I didn't like the thought of the man I loved doing THAT sort of thing with a ugly hairy guy. It made me think, maybe I am man-like? That thought truly freaked me out until I dressed up as guy and saw I looked like David Niven a bit. (I loved his movies, still do)
Gayness does make some heterosexuals wonder what can be attractive about what CAN seem, in sexual practices anyhow- degradation, filth, horrific pain and/ humiliation, and why should sadism, pain and humiliation [], BE acceptable in ANY law or in ANY part of our world?

We fight 'evil' and go to war against such horror and oppression quite often, so I guess we have to answer these questions, to a degree, without impinging on personal privacy? Do we? What about the porn and fashion industries? Should it all become more romantic?

Allegedly 'chastity' is the new black.

From most accounts I'm aware of, HETEROSEXUAL people indulge JUST AS MUCH (if not MORE) in 'negative'/excretia/dirt-containing/sadistic sexual practices -
Doesn't make it right either way though? If that's the case, why pick on GAYS alone?

What is it we can find SO wrong, so VERY different about homosexuality v heterosexuality? Why is it our business?

Is life long enough for us to care THAT much as to WHY some males or females want to love each other and maybe get married? What harm can a happy pair of people do to you or yours?

What is it *precisely* that some hate about homosexuality?
Lots mistakenly associate homosexuality with pedophilia, an erroneous assumption:
Pedophiles are mostly 'heterosexual' males, whom
usually attack young girls, but there are females
guilty too, as well as 'boy-loving' pedophiles. Whatever
the gender, pedophiles are all psychopaths and are hating,
NEVER loving, as some would have you believe. They refuse to comprehend their own false beliefs.
Loving children is to respect them and their innocence, and to understand 'informed consent'.

They all need to know that child-rape is an act of hate and jealousy against the innocence of a child, it is never never never a 'loving' act. It's an act of hate, theft of innocence, domination and repressed violence.
Lost innocence in childhood is one of the most detrimental, terrible things that can happen to a person. Child sexual molestation or rape, usually inflicts a life-sentence of acute emotional trauma on the victim as well as the friends and family of the victim ans so there are 'life-sentences' for numerous people due to ONE psycho who decided to go with an urge.

I will now ONLY take advice from calm and happy, non-judgmental, non-addicted, easy-going people, whatever their 'gender' is, is their business alone.
So, if two gay people want to get married, settle down
and maybe foster/adopt an unwanted child, what IS wrong with that?  Gays have been around for thousands of years. If they want to buy into the entire wedding business, LET THEM BE.

As long as they're content, good, nice people and are happy folks, are evidently a stable family unit and not shoving any anger, hate or sadism at children or anyone else, what business is it of ours, their gender OR their marital status?

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Elizabeth is a consultant behaviorist and supports ACT Therapy incorporating 'mindful' meditation. Elizabeth is currently studying Herbalism and Addictions in order to practice as General Practitioner in holistic medicine.