It's 2012...Why Are You Single?

Jan. 15, 2012 - PRLog -- It’s Friday night. A new year. And you can’t help but wonder “Why am I still single”? It’s a common problem. I’ll share a secret with you. There’s a little problem (well, actually a big problem) that’s getting in the way of finding your soul mate.

Limiting beliefs.

Sounds complicated, but it actually isn’t. Limiting beliefs are the chatter in your head. The expectations you put on your future mate. And more importantly…the reason why it’s 2012 – and you’re still single! Let me explain.
Hidden Barriers…Uncovered

Most people aren’t aware of their hidden beliefs. But here’s the problem: these beliefs are holding you back from manifesting the love you deserve! Uncover these beliefs…and you can change them. Trust me, it makes a difference.

And it starts with you.

There are some hidden barriers, in your past, preventing you from moving on. Here’s some examples:

   *Past lovers
  * Toxic relationships
   *Trust issues
   *Core belief issues (i.e. you think you aren’t worthy, not pretty enough or too shy)

But, guess what? It’s a totally new year. Welcome to 2012! It’s time to tackle your limiting beliefs and find your soul mate. Still with me, right? Ok. Good. Let’s talk about what’s holding you back.

What’s Holding You Back?
It’s the moment of truth. Grab a pen, and let’s do some work! It’s time to challenge your negative beliefs about dating…and get to the root of the problem.

Think about it a little. What’s holding you back…right now? I’ll give you some examples to get your wheels turning.

Some people think finding a soul mate happens naturally. It shouldn’t require work. But here’s the problem. You have to work at everything else, like your career, financial goals and higher education. Guess what? You have to work at finding that right special someone, too.

Here’s another example of a limiting belief to consider.
You have a specific “type.” Your mate must fit your physical qualifications to a tee. This belief is getting in the way of your happiness: being attracted to someone physically is important, but it’s time to shift your focus to qualities, instead of a type. It’s time to shift focus to finding a mate who is respectful, shares your values and wants to know who you really are.

So, I’ve given you some examples. Now, it’s your turn. Be honest, and find out what beliefs are holding you back from finding that special someone. And here’s the hard part. Promise, that for 2012, you’ll tackle those limiting beliefs! If you do, the chances of finding your soul mate are much higher.

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