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My Ex Girlfriend Is Single Again - Should You Make a Move?
If you have ever been unlucky in love and happened to have been dumped by a girlfriend only to find out that she is in a new relationship, then you know how much that can hurt. You probably have had some fantasies or dreams about her...
Well, to answer that question, you have to go a little deeper into what happened between you and her as well as what happened between her and the new guy. If she was in a long term relationship with this new guy, then you want to be a little more cautious about trying to hook up with her again. And if the relationship that you had with her was fraught with drama, then you may also want to be cautious as well.
Most of the time, though, I would suggest that it would be perfectly okay to make your move as long as you do it in a way that does not come across as being too pushy, too needy or too desperate. No matter how much you have thought about it, no matter how much you have waited for her to become single again, you need to still exercise some restraint and not come across as being too eager.
You also want to be careful about building up too much of a fantasy in your mind of what will happen. If you have been secretly yearning away for your ex girlfriend all of this time, then there is a good chance that you have built up an image of her and a fantasy of what will happen that may be a little unrealistic. I've seen this happen too many times.
A guy will think about his ex girlfriend all of the time and build up this "perfect" image of her all the while she is with someone else and then when she becomes "available" again, he has this idea that everything will work out the way that it does in the movies. And then he gets disappointed when he finds out that she is not that perfect and that things are not working out perfectly.
Should you pursue her when she becomes single again? (For more details, go to: http://exbackarticles.com)
Of course, if that is what you want. Just have realistic expectations, and have a plan to get things started with her again. Don't just come out of the blue and declare that you are still in love with her or anything like that. Let things go the way that they would if you had just met her, getting to know her again and proceeding a little on the more cautious side.
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