Male Approach Behaviour’s Learned On The Playground

Aug. 26, 2011 - PRLog -- Los Angeles, CA - There are many men in America who would kill to learn how to approach a girl. But the answer that has eluded them for so long appears to have its origin on the playgrounds of grade school. The early bloomers in any facet of life have a huge psychological advantage over their peers. Early success at sports, academics, arts, etc. gives children a powerful belief that they are great at an activity, which pushes them to continue to succeed.

The main driver behind this phenomenon is the power of belief. When a child believes that he or she is successful at a given activity, they are much more likely maintain that success in the future. When a young boy first crosses the threshold at a middle school dance and becomes the popular boy in school, the girls reinforce that he is a popular boy and he believes it, which makes him act in particularly confident ways. These kids learn how to approach a girl on their own, and the girls welcome it. The social skills he develops in life are what make him a natural as an adult.

This phenomenon has been validated in many fields, and explains why some men are successful and some are not. “If you didn’t learn how to approach a girl as a child, it’s OK. You have plenty of time to learn now.” says the dating coach at http://doesshelikeme.net/