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Jan. 23, 2011 - PRLog -- We all spend thousands of dollars searching for this magical equation on how to explode our business', therefore our bank accounts should follow.  But your bank account hasn't exploded yet. What went wrong? It's because you were not working with the complete equation.

Here it is, simple and profound. I will dissect this so you can start understanding how it works.

Thoughts + Words + Actions = Results

Let's get started.

Thoughts:
Thoughts obviously are what comes from our minds through thinking. We think about success, we think about life events, we think about our daily activities, we think about what went right, and we think about what went wrong.  Think, think, think is all we do. We are human beings that think.  Here's the difference, do you think up a plan and "see" the outcome, do you "feel" the outcome or are you simply "hoping" for a certain outcome?

Your first step is to get your thoughts inline to a point that  you do not attach them to an outcome. Learn to accept what is, accept whatever outcome that comes your way. You performed an action and it may not have met your expectations.  Learning how to not expect an outcome is the greatest challenge but the simplest thing to do.

I learned this through a great mentor of mine, Matthew Ferry's "Sales Velocity Series". He teaches how to play the Perfect Game. The perfect game is simple and fun. It opens up the opportunity to learning how to accept what is.

1. What ever is offered, Accept it
2. What ever is suggested, Do it
3. What ever happens, Declare it perfect

If you accept what ever is offered, you begin learning how to receive. If you can not receive, it doesn't matter how much you give, you will always end up empty handed.
Think about it this way. Try this exercise on, HOLD your breathe. Go ahead and take in a deep breathe and HOLD it.

HOLD it for as long as you can, how long can you go on WITHOUT letting it go? EXACTLY!!!

Giving and receiving go hand in hand, like breathing. You can not give one without receiving the other.

If you do what ever is suggested, you learn to open up your mind to different perspectives. Learning that your way of doing things is not the ONLY way.  Learn how to expand your story, your experiences, and your attachment to how you think.

If you learn how to declare what ever happens perfect, you now begin living in the here and now. The only outcome there is, is "What is".  If you live trying to achieve a certain outcome, an expectation of how things are to go you will without fail, end up disappointed. Therefore, never accepting what is unless it happens your way is limiting.

An expectation is simply a judgment of a future event. The future hasn't happened!  

Words:
Become mindful of the words you hear, the words you think and the words you say. Let's say you decided to plan an activity....do you hear, "what makes you think you can pull this off?"
OR you have planned an amazing activity and it didn't go exactly as you hoped. Do you hear, "told you so, what makes you think this could ever happen?" And worse yet, do you say out loud, "I was stupid to even think I could do this."

This is where affirmations come in. Listening to affirmations in essence are replacing those negative words into positive ones. Along with playing the perfect game you are on your way.

By performing these simple actions you begin developing a stronger sense of understanding on how the equation works. If you are looking at changing your current results and your actions are not getting you there, now you see what variables are missing.

Becoming aware is the first step. As Dr. Phil states, "you can not change what you don't acknowledge!"

People ask me all the time to work with them, mentor them and coach them in creating even better results.  I am happy to do that, my mission statement is simple "I guide and direct others in earning 6 figure incomes, to live life on their terms and in their timeframe so they can be more and do more for those they love the most”
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