Pick Up Lines To Start A Conversation

Pick up lines have a very bad reputation.
By: Primoz
Jan. 7, 2009 - PRLog -- How many times have we heard cheesy pick up lines like:

"Nice shoes.  Wanna bang?"

"Your name must be Gillet, because you're the best a man can get."

"Did you wash your pants with windex?  Because I can see myself in them."

Face it, using lines like this will cause a girl to run the other way. Pick up lines like these make you look like an idiot.

Consequently, bad pick up lines get too much attention, therefore everyone thinks all pick up lines are lame.

And this just isn't true.

A good pick up line will actually do what it says - help you pick up a girl!

Keep in mind that the purpose of using a pick up line is to begin a conversation.


After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.

But if you can't get the conversation started, then you can do anything else!

You want something more that just talking to a woman; you want to engage her in a good conversation. Drawing her into your conversation is the only means of continuing your relationship journey.

Do you know that good pick up lines do just that?

When I first started going out to meet women, I was always at a loss of what to say to first meet a girl.  I was always trying to think of something to say off the top of my head, and more often than not, I'd miss my opportunity to meet a great girl because it took me too long to think something up.

That is why it's important to know one or two good pick up lines that actually WORK.  Because for those situations where you can't be original, you need something to help you take action!

Keep in mind that women are wise; never use these types of pick up lines, since they get you nowhere at all.

"Don't I know you from somewhere?"

All women know this to be a lame pick up line.  You might think you're being clever when you say this, but you're not.

Other bad pick up lines include, asking for directions, complimenting her on her clothing and telling her she looks like some big celebrity.


These lines do not engage the woman, since once she answers you; the conversation has nowhere to go.

Bad pick up lines have yes and no answers. Good pick up lines get a woman to thinking about her response, while encouraging an emotional reaction from her, this causes her to want to continue talking with you.

How can you engage a woman in conversation with you?

Asking her opinion of something is the easiest way to do this, since each woman has an opinion and they like sharing their ideas, especially about relationships.

Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.

Then you can follow up with a story about how you know a woman who wants to make sure her kid's zodiac signs are compatible with hers so they will be well behavied as they grow up.

This can lead to various other topics of conversation, such as:

1.  Children 2.  Marriage 3.  Astrology 4.   Pregnancy 5.  Relationships

The numerous ideas for conversations are unlimited. Here you will find a few of my favorite follow-ups.

"Do you think there's something to astrology?" (then lead into more discussion about destiny or fate.)

"What is your sign?"  (No matter what she says - be sure to mention your sign is compatible with hers!)

"What do you think of children?  You seem like the mothering type."

I could go on and on, but you get the idea.

The design of a good pick up line engages a woman into deep and interesting conversations that provide you with an opportunity to get to know one another as you become familiar with each other.

This is how you engage a woman in conversation.

Once you reach this point, ask for her telephone number and set up your first date.

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