I Saw My Ex Boyfriend With Another Girl - What To Do Now

April 7, 2014 - PRLog -- "I saw my ex boyfriend with another girl." Eeek. It must have been an awkward and painful experience for you. The first time that you see your ex boyfriend with another girl it can come as a huge shock. It is something that you can never prepare yourself for and you might have been surprised how it made you feel.

Maybe you thought that you were ok with the breakup and that you had moved on. You had convinced yourself that you hadn't anymore feelings for him but since the sighting you have not been able to stop thinking about him. You hurt that he has already moved on and that there is some other girl in his life. Your imagination is going into overdrive about what they are up to and if he likes her more than he liked you. It can be excruciating and you just don't know where to turn.

If you now think that you still have feelings for your ex boyfriend and seeing him with another girl has stirred feelings of jealousy within you, there are things that you can do. The way that your ex boyfriend perceives you right now is VERY important. Your reaction to his new relationship will have a big impact on him and he will either respect you or pity you. If you want to get him back eventually then you want him to look at you positively.

How To React When You See Them Again

You cannot chnage how you reacted to seeing your ex boyfriend with another girl, but you can prepare yourself if you run into them again. The vital thing is that you don't come across as jealous, spiteful or jealous when you see them. Also, running in the other direction will be noticed by him and you don't want to look childish either. You have to bite your tongue, take a deep breath and put your acting skills to good use.

Proceed with caution. On the one hand you dont want to seem shocked, angry or hurt, but on the other hand, you don't want to come across as fake and over the moon to see them together. Try to act naturally and smile, but don't be running up to them and hugging them, or being overly friendly. He will know that something is up and that you are pretending.

Keep the meeting short and say that you are late for something. Just ask him how he his and wish them a good day. This way you will not end up getting tongue tied by getting into a full blown conversation. You don't want to put yourself through this ordeal for one second longer than you have to either. Be as calm as you possibly can be, act as though seeing him has not ruffled you at all and you will come across as mature and attractive.

How Long Has He Been With Her?

Do you know how long your ex boyfriend has been with this new girl? It is normal to panic about his new relationship and take it at face value, but you have to delve a little deeper here. Another important factor i how long ago you broke up with eachother. If your ex boyfriend is out dating other girls very soon after you have broken up, it is a classic rebound relationship.

If you have not moved on yet, why has he gotten over you so fast? It is only human that you have lingering feelings for your ex as you were very close and spent so much time together. No matter how much your ex boyfriend tries to ignore these feelings and memories he will not be able to do it for long.

Have you ever considered that he is seeing another girl to try and get over you? Maybe he is desperate to dull the painful feelings of missing you and he is trying to force himself to move on with someone else. This pretence can only go on for so long until he realises that he has made a mistake and that you are the one that he wants.

What you do during this time is crucial if you want him back. There are things that you can do to speed up your ex boyfriend's common sense. These relay on using male psychology to your advantage and understanding what is attractive to him. If you get things right then your ex boyfriend;s rebound relationship will not last long at all. You don't want to sabotage their relationship or do anything underhand to split them up. That is wrong and will reflect very badly on you. Instead you will work on your own behaviour to make him see you in a better light.

Your Next Steps - Do You Want Him Back?

What you do now is very important and will either make or break your chances of getting your ex boyfriend back. There are specific techniques that you should be following to make your ex boyfriend realise that it is you that he wants to be with. The link below will teach you exactly how to handle his new relationship and what you should be doing in the background to increase his attraction towards you.
http://knowhowtogetyourexback.com/2014/04/my-ex-boyfriend-has-a-new-girlfriend-what-you-need-to-do

How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Attracted To You

There are certain things that you can do to make your ex boyfriend attracted to you again. You have probably never even thought about these things as you are approaching the situation from a female perspective. When you start to understand attraction from his point of view you will get better results. The link below explains all.
http://knowhowtogetyourexback.com/2011/11/how-to-make-your-ex-boyfriend-attracted-to-you

How To Make Him Miss You

Before your ex boyfriend sees sense and wants you back, you will have to make him miss you first. Click the link below to find out how to make him pine for you and think about you all the time.
http://knowhowtogetyourexback.com/make-your-ex-miss-you