“The longer two people take to make the necessary changes to improve their relationships, the bigger the problems become and the harder they are to solve,” continued Flohr. Here are three quick ways to improve relationships that are starting to struggle.
Play Hard - Getting involved in activities that are stimulating. Join a sports team, take an adventurous holiday, or take up jogging together. The key to playing hard to improve a relationship is doing something together, and making it all about increasing the adrenaline. Studies by Midwestern University have shown that adrenaline has a direct correlation to attraction, arousal, and emotional bonding.
Of course, extreme sports produce high levels of adrenaline. Things like bungee jumping and sky diving would certainly do the trick. However, if two people want that rush of adrenaline without performing daredevil stunts, exercising and even dancing to stimulating music can increase the release of adrenaline to help stimulate romance.
Be Unpredictable - Of course, some degree of predictability is a good thing. It is good to be kind, considerate, and loving at all times, and that our partners know they can count on us in times of need. Sometimes, however, predictability can spell boring. According to Dr. Seth Meyers, PsyD, “sometimes things can start to feel stale and predictable in a long-term relationship, so it is important to stimulate it in unexpected ways.”
Spring a romantic dinner or getaway on each other, take the time to cuddle and watch a silly romantic movie together. Even spontaneous things can become stale. Don’t just go out to eat, find new exciting restaurants to enjoy, or make staying home more romantic by setting up a candle light dinner in front of the fireplace, or serving breakfast in bed.
Don’t forget the little things that can make a relationship more romantic every day like saying “I love you” or letting the other person know they still look beautiful or handsome. There are a lot of little things we can do every day to make love more exciting that do not cost a penny. Leave sensual voice mails on their phone or put a love note in their pocket before they leave for work.
Relax Romantically - Stress is a real relationship killer. Put a hot tub in the yard and relax away stress while increasing the romantic atmosphere of the home. Having a hot tub available at all times gives two people the ultimate flexibility and ability to have a soothing place to enjoy each other’s company whenever they have time. Spending a few minutes every night before bed together in a hot tub is a great start to a new level of romance.
Many hot tubs include special lighting and stereo functions that increase the romantic mood. For an even more seducing atmosphere, add some aromatherapy.
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About Flohr Pools
Flohr Pools was originally founded way back in 1968. Over the past 45+ years, we've brought happiness to untold thousands of homeowners in Pennsylvania, Maryland, West Virginia and Virginia. Our products include Hot Spring Spas, Doughboy above-ground pools as well as vinyl liner and fiberglass in-ground pools.
We still service everything we sell, with an extensive in-house crew of experts. We also operate year-round retail facilities and showrooms in Pennsylvania, Maryland, West Virginia and Virginia.
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