My Ex Boyfriend Is Dating Again - How Do I Get Him Back?

Feb. 20, 2014 - PRLog -- My ex boyfriend is dating again is one of the worst things that you can hear after your break up, especially if you still have strong feelings for him. You have considered trying to get him back in the past, but that all seems impossible now that he seems to have moved on. It might not be easy, but it is possible.

What you need to accept right now is that you can't just click your fingers and your ex boyfriend will come running back? You will need to be patient and hide away in the background for a while. Getting upset or pleading with your ex boyfriend to take you back will not work and you know it. You have to go about things in a much more subtle way.

Accept The New Relationship And Lay Low

No one expects you to accept that your ex boyfriend is dating again and be happy with it. However, for your own peace of mind you will have to face up to the fact that things have changed and your ex boyfriend has temporarily moved on. It will not always be this way but you have to let him get on with things uninterrupted, otherwise it will just reflect badly on you.

If you kick up a fuss and declare your undying love to your ex boyfriend things will not turn out in your favour. He will think that you are being childish and acting out of jealousy. You will come across as spiteful to him because you can't accept the fact that he has moved on before you. You don't want to appear like the jealous ex who is trying to ruin his new relationship for kicks. That will never get him back.

Instead of acting out of emotion you will have to hold back and bite your lip. Being the mature ex girlfriend will make him respect you a lot more and think that you are better than he thought. It will also be good for him to see you positively when the honeymoon period has passed down the line. By keeping the lines of communication open and remaining on good terms with your ex boyfriend, you have a much better chance of getting back together again.

Make Him Trust You Again

The only way that your ex boyfriend is going to trust you again is if you keep your nose out of his private business. That is hard to do, especially if you just want to get inside his head and figure out exactly how he feels about this new girl and if he still has feelings left for you. You have to fight the urge to ask him questions or let sarcastic or spiteful jibes about this new girl leave your lips. If you don't you could run the risk of damaging your friendship and he could relegate you completely to the dark corners of his past. Do not let this happen or getting him back will prove impossible.

It is important that you always keep the conversations with him light and positive. Never go into things too deeply, try to treat him as a friend for now and have a joke and a laugh. Getting all intense on him will scare him off. Remember that his new girlfriend will probably be paranoid about him hanging around with his ex, so she could be planting seeds of doubt in his head about you, trying to make him distrust your motives. That is why you can't give your ex boyfriend anything to doubt, if he starts to question your intentions then he will be putting as much distance between you both as possible.

Another method for establishing trust is to not go on the attack. Although you want to call his girlfriend all the names in the book, slag her off for her dubious fashion sense, or awful personality - STOP! This will only reflect badly on yourself and not the other way round. Never try to offend or say anything negative about her at all - do not even bring her up in conversation unless he does. You will only get his back up and get him on the defensive, ultimately pushing the two of them even closer. You don't want him to view you as some kind of spiteful bitch who is trying to come between them.

If you manage to re-establish this trust, your ex boyfriend will begin opening up to you in ways that you never dreamt possible. You will become his sounding board when things are not going so well in his new relationship. Once the honeymoon phase wears off, he will soon begin to see her faults and subconsciously be comparing her to you. If he does bring up something that is wrong with her then it is your job to listen, but don't use this as an opportunity to tell him that she is wrong for him. Be a friend and an impartial one at that.

Your Next Steps - Do You Want Him Back?

There is so much more that you need to understand about male psychology and how they behave after a break up. First off you have to be aware of your own behaviour to make him want you again. The link below will teach you what kind of things you should be avoiding to make this happen.
http://knowhowtogetyourexback.com/2012/07/mistakes-girls-make-after-the-break-up

Make Him Want You Back

Your ex boyfriend will never want you back unless he feels desire for you again. This is even more important now that he is dating again. For him to leave this new girl you will need to make him strongly attracted to you. Learn how to do this by clicking the link below.
http://knowhowtogetyourexback.com/2012/07/how-to-make-your-ex-boyfriend-want-you-back

Find Out If He Still Has Feelings For You

You might have resigned yourself to the fact that there are no feelings left for you because he is dating again. This isn't necessarily true though. There are certain signals that you should be on the lookout for that will betray how he actullay feels towards you. Read them below.
http://knowhowtogetyourexback.com/2012/03/does-he-still-like-me-how-to-find-out