Why we are living in an infidelity world

WESTMINSTER, U.K. - July 4, 2013 - PRLog -- “WHY WE ARE LIVING IN AN INFIDELITY WORLD”

The news that Grant Bovey has yet again been unfaithful to Anthea Turner hasn't surprised David Miller, the founder of adultery dating site, ‘Loving Links' who believes that we are now all living in an infidelity world.

For the past seventeen years, sociologist, adultery guru, Miller has introduced thousands of married people who want to cheat to other married people who want to cheat as well.

And he claims that nowadays, infidelity is more rampant than ever before.

He says: “Monogamy has always been difficult because expecting anyone to be faithful to just one person for their entire life is tantamount to expecting them to drive just one model of car for all eternity.

“The truth is that while you might own a lovely car, you might from time to time covet another model.

“Today, marriage is under siege more than ever. The Internet is like an incredible sweet shop in which both men and women can indulge their every sexual appetite for a very small fee.

“Society has been broadbanded. And so many people who are married still window shop on the Internet for other partners.

“Marriage is in so much danger because in the old days, you could have a partner and not meet that many other people with whom to compare that partner.

“And ‘Fifty Shades of Grey,’ has lead to more infidelity because it has made countless married women extremely restless and sexually dissatisfied.

“It may have been marketed as ‘Mommy Porn’ but sometimes 50 Shades has led Mommy to crave sex with someone other than Daddy.

“Above all, the Internet has caused married couples to feel as If all they have to do is put money down and download a partner on the screen, rather as if they were downloading an I-Tune.

“There are so many different sexual options and sexual partners available on the Internet that anyone who has a wandering mind will find it almost impossible to stay faithful to their spouse.

“And no matter how much in love someone is with their spouse, on the Internet there is so much opportunity for them to have what I call ‘Top-up Sex’ – an extramarital thrill.

“Although the opportunities for cheating have increased because of technology, the resources for catching a cheater has also increased.

“There is software you can put on a shared home computer to track your spouse’s on-line activity.

“And software which allows you download someone’s email so that you can read it. Everything to help anyone who is looking for signs of infidelity.

“There is an equal amount of technology nowadays for people who want to cheat and get away with it.

“I advise my clients to get an untraceable mobile phone, to have multiple email addresses.

“There is also software you can download to your usual phone that generates a random number you can use from which to text or phone your lover secretly.

“Now that we are living in an infidelity world, I advise anyone who wants to stop their partner from straying to beat the competition at its own game.

“Keep sex as interesting and as novel and as captivating as anything around on line.

“Take your mind back to the start of your relationship and remember what kind of sexual activity sealed the deal in the first place.

“Then try and re-enact the romance and the sexuality of those early encounters.

“At the same time, sexual surprises are always crucial. And there are countless books and magazines around offering invaluable tips and advice on how to do that.

“From time to time, a woman should treat her husband as if he were her lover.

“And from time to time, a man should treat his wife as if she were his mistress.

“Monogamy may be far from easy, but if you focus on making your marriage as romantic and as sexual as any extra-marital affair, you may well find that monogamy is as much fun as a fling”

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