The problem is that so few people know about how relationships work or how they, the people in relationship, work. Once you have this knowledge, you can literally see how all relationships are determined by it. Basically, research in psychology has discovered that we all have many parts or facets to ourselves. This has been known for decades and is used in many types of psychotherapy. But what has been little understood is how these parts bond with the parts in another person on an unconscious level, creating strong patterns that we get stuck in. These patterns are blueprints for how humans relate to one another, and we learn them in our initial relationships with our parents/caregivers. They are universal and so that's why everyone has the same kinds of relationship problems: diminishing passion and sexuality and seeing each other as friends only, loving each other deeply but in a parent/child way rather than adult-to-adult, becoming attracted to particular types of other people, having repeated arguments about the same issues, becoming increasingly critical of our partner when once we saw them as perfect, and so on.
Once you know about these relationship patterns and how they form, you forever have the key to dealing with any relationship issue.
Relationship and consciousness teacher Astra Niedra, who has introduced to thousands of people worldwide the profoundly healing consciousness work known as Voice Dialogue, explains this 'secret' in her ebook The Greatest Relationship Secret, giving an example of a married couple before they know the secret and after, so that you can clearly see how it affects their relationship.
For anyone who wants to go more deeply into how to experience a deeply fulfilling and passionate long-term relationship, Astra's book The Perfect Relationship shows you how in 10 steps.
And for anyone who needs a quick boost for their relationship - whether it's a new relationship or decades-long, Astra's book Three Instant Relationship Fixes will transform any relationship instantly. No special skills or experience are required to use the fixes. You don't even need to tell your partner you are doing them. Astra guides you through each fix step-by-step, and gives examples of what to say and do if you get stuck. You can try doing only one fix, or you can do all three. It's up to you. All of them work.
We only hear about celebrity break-ups but so many people, all over the world, leave perfectly good relationships unnecessarily, causing pain for so many people, including their children, all because there is so little understanding about how relationships work. Astra Niedra's work is about bringing to as many people as possible some of the most profound, leading-edge knowledge about relationships, in simple, practical and easy-to-read books.
All Astra's books are available from major ebook retailers, with links available on her web site: http://www.voicedialogue.com