SuddenlySolo.org Founders Harold Spielman & Marc Silbert Unveil Tips on What Mature Men Really Want

Jan. 10, 2013 - PRLog -- The solo life can often feel very lonely and it’s quite normal to miss the companionship of the opposite sex, especially around the holidays. In order to develop a new relationship, one must get back in the dating scene and that can be overwhelming; especially for older women. Our moms or grandmas may not fully understand the modern dating rituals and starting a relationship after a divorce or death of a significant other is a daunting experience. Fortunately, experts and founders of Suddenly Solo, Marc Silbert and Harold (Hal) Spielman, have released tips on how mature women can get a date and just in time for Valentine’s Day! From condiments to condoms, SuddenlySolo.org has you covered! Learn more at www.suddenlysolo.org.

In today’s society it seems as though getting breast implants is the “in” thing to do. Many females, both young and old, believe it helps boost self-esteem, body image and even sexual satisfaction. This year ladies, forget the boob job and focus on the jewelry. Based on Marc and Hal’s eye tracking research they found that men first look at a woman’s eyes, then earrings, then face, then necklace and then finally the cleavage.

Another important tip for women to remember is to not be or feel reserved. Women out number men that are 65 years plus by almost 4 to 1. With this said, it’s essential for a female to stand out amongst the competition. In order to shine like a star, one must search within themselves and truly feel comfortable with their being. Qualities such as, proper manners, showing initiative, good posture, and attentiveness, are a few traits a women should always possess in order to be acknowledged by a man.

It has been long reckoned that blondes have more fun; but who’s to say blondes get more men or dates? The dumb blonde routine won’t cut it this time! It was found that 54% of mature men prefer brunettes over blondes and they tend to like smart, sophisticated women. That’s not to say blondes aren’t smart; however, it seems to be a trend today that many females believe going blonde will be more desirable to a man.  

It goes without saying that men prefer women that take care of themselves. Staying well groomed is a must! The overall image of a woman is important because it shows men just how much this female cares for their appearance and well-being. It is often a turn-on for men when they observe a mature single woman who takes the time to value her self image. Maintaining a well groomed appearance will also benefit a woman’s inner-self confidence too.

Most importantly, Marc and Hal suggest that mature women avoid playing games. Using the “hard to get” gambit or other silly mind games is a childish act and will not benefit women in the long run. At this stage of life, it’s time to let your true colors show – game time is over!

About Suddenly Solo: SuddenlySolo.org is a definitive site for the mature widowed or divorced man. As healing after a breakup, divorce, or a death of a significant other takes time and can be very difficult to overcome, this site provides a positive sense of renewal, as well as offering valuable advice for men on how to move forward into this next exciting chapter of their lives. Viewers can explore a variety of areas on the site such as; Hot Topics, an 'Ask Hal' (Q&A), Sex and Relationships, Solo Living, and Personal Experiences. From condiments to condoms, SuddenlySolo.org has you covered! Learn more at www.suddenlysolo.org. Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/SuddenlySolo.  Twitter: @SuddenlySoloHal.