If you're a woman who has been dumped and you want to get your ex-boyfriend back fast, you won't find much help in the media.
Instead, the popular culture tells you to assume that it's for the best.
It means he's just not that into you, he was never right for you, you should move on, find someone who appreciates you, and so on.
The sad fact is in many -- in fact, in most -- of those situations, the couple not only could but should, end up together.
There is a proven method women can use to get their ex-boyfriends back. But sadly, most women go about it all wrong.
1) Call, text, email or Facebook him constantly in a vain attempt to keep the connection strong for fear that their ex boyfriend will forget about them forever.
2) Approach him (yet again) for another heart to heart, asking what went wrong, what they could have done differently or apologizing for what they think went wrong.
3) Sleep with him, hoping that an intimate sexual encounter will bring them closer together.
All of these efforts will almost certainly guarantee that he either runs away forever or uses them, then dumps them.
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