Until now in the area of Anger Management, psychologists and psychiatrists have referred to anger as a “secondary emotion." The fact that anger is the ONLY ‘secondary emotion’ is a dead give away—secondary emotions don’t exist! The emotion that triggers anger is FEAR. That’s not new. Understanding that anger is a behavior is new. Anger is not the emotion. Anger is our need to physically attack—whether we follow through with the attack or not. When you get angry, you have an overwhelming need to take action – and given that our angry thoughts are often directed at another person, the need to attack that other person with our anger can be overwhelming.
“We are in the middle of the Anger Epidemic. Adult temper tantrums and angry outbursts have become socially acceptable. No? When is the last time a friend or coworker talked about getting angry or irritated with other drivers? A store clerk? A child or spouse in public? And you listened! They felt free to talk about and you just listened! We may not like public displays of anger but we accept them. Road Rage. Arena Rage. Line-up Rage. Cinema Rage. And the number of incidents is growing. Because the standard way of dealing with anger is to focus on the ‘emotion’ the solutions have not been working.”
As Jeanette Kasper added, “The Anger is NOT an Emotion System has gone the Anger Management and Psychology industry one better. Where most companies in this market deal with the symptoms (“I feel angry when you…) the Anger is NOT an Emotion System provides solutions that neutralize the anger and delete the need to attack – delete the anger. We also provide solutions that deal with the physical. There is NOT GOOD REASON to attack someone. Anger ALWAYS injures relationships. need to attack, either neutralizing the need to attack, or dealing with the issues before they ever surface as anger.
Jeanette Kasper has had identified several key steps most important to those who deal with an angry person and those who are that angry person. When you understand that anger is a psycho neurological process within the body, you can modify
There are only 5 fears that cause anger, the need to attack:
3. Protecting someone in the pack who is weaker. We will get angry on behalf of a child, a ‘weaker’ coworker or family member in situations where we don’t get angry for ourselves. We will protect those in our packs we consider to be weaker. (have you ever gotten angry about the way someone else was treated?)
4. Cornered. No choice. When we feel we have tried everything else, we will snap and attack with our anger.
5. 95% of our difficulties with people stem from the need to fight for position in the pack!
These 5 fears are just part of an entire anger-management system. Take a look at when you are frustrated, irritated, annoyed, angry, or really raging. How many times is it because: I said so. I’m right. My expectations are more important than your expectations. Because I’m the boss. Because I’m the mom!
Realize that when you are fighting for position in the pack – you are scared!
The complete step-by-step solution is fully documented in a new special report "When you Understand that Anger is NOT an Emotion You'll be able to Control your Anger." The report is available for immediate download at http://angerisnotanemotion.com And to help as many people as possible, this valuable report is available now for only $2.97.
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Jeanette Kasper Your Anger UnTangler
In the field for 25 years, Mrs. Kasper had to learn for HERSELF how to neutralize her anger and live in her calm. Step by step she can guide you to your calm, too. Recognized by Rockhurst University, Olympia College, and Park University as the Top North America Speaker for 13 years, Mrs. Kasper has travelled throughout North America and Great Britain extensively coaching and facilitating programs helping people to fully understand Anger and get a grip on themselves (and the difficult people standing in front of them!)
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