Some profound breathing and one or two of hits on my skull (my Italian upbringing got in useful), typically placed me back in control. This all... "How will I fix it? How can I stop this? How can I make the scenario better?...was shutting my feelings all the way down. I was detaching with the very core of me that is woman...my heart.
So at this point, I had to figure out why I kept disconnecting from my emotions. (I do know, it seems like I have a real issue).
During my attempt, I understood a way to be in touch with my womanly facet more profoundly.
I've spent quite a while studying masculine and feminine forces and realising the sense of each one.
Let´s start by defining both concepts...firstly, male energy:
It´s the aspect where power, focus, self-control and direction comes from. It is target and result oriented - continually trying to find the best means to complete the result necessitated. Manly energy schemes, organizes, influences and takes charge of any circumstances to encourage winning.
This time let's focus on female energy:
This force is passionate, free, a life force and produces space for feelings and emotions to be vivid. The female essence is a state motivator that savours revealing the senses. It's made to come to life by sound, color, taste, smell, touch and intuition because it longs to experience love through all things and everyone.
Alright...so you now have a short description of each.
Have you noticed how living in a environment where pursuing time limits and achieving ambitions has made us lose touch of our state of "being" and "sensation"? We are so hectic scheming with our thoughts and feelings that we are inclined to disregard our emotions, our senses, and our systems. We are walking around practically not in touch!
Fortunately, some of us learn yoga courses, dance lessons and cooking lessons. Or we learn playing an instrument...nearly anything to take us back into what our core being longs for to experience being nourished...loved.
What exactly is meant by the term love?
Our system and our center long to be loved. Deep within ourselves us we desire to be acknowledged for who we are, stripped away from the suits we put on to embody our professional and authoritative life.
Under each suit, lives a woman...a sensual woman who cherishes every aspect of her physique, thoughts, feelings and essence. The woman is susceptible and longs to feel secure enough to submit to the love of a man with no worry that he will be scared by a woman crying in front of him.
We have ended up being ambition- obsessed women who can achieve any goal we pursue, yet could have neglected that our feminine essence longs to be cared for.
So, how can we do this?
We revel our reason for being!
I've realised using your feminine essence, body language and tenderness to encourage and lure a man to be in touch with his heart and yours while appreciating the significance of your own wants, and being in harmony with your reason for being.
Therefore, allure and invite, and keep your needs in the forefront of your thoughts and hack his balls off with Passion once he fails to act accordingly.
Seems brutal?
Not exactly. Realise this isn't a call to nag a man because you will likely revolt him and it's not a call to avoid stating what you long for because he won´t accept your value. It is a call to spring from a seat of gentleness (because everyone is trying to do their best) and to fight for your ideals.
So how does all this relate to sensuality and body gestures?
EVERY LITTLE THING!
This guided me understand that me as a woman is more than just teasing or flirting with a man...I'm leading him to his core. Most men find this really hard...it is not an aspect of the masculine force. And what makes a woman beautiful and pleasing is her capacity to guide a man to his center, his heart firstly through her body gestures and most especially through her kindness.
This has provided me a revitalized awareness of purpose...guiding from my feminine energy!
This is the reason why body gestures and sensuality is immensely crucial to understand. It made me realize how being in my body guides me to be in harmony with my feminine essence.
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