Some profound breathing and one or two of hits on my skull (my Italian upbringing got in helpful), normally placed me back in control. This all... "How can I resolve it? How can I avoid this? How can I make the scenario better?...was closing my emotions down. I was detaching with the very core of me that is woman...my center.
So now, I had to figure out why I kept disconnecting from my emotions. (I do know, it seems like I have a real problem).
During my attempt, I understood a way to connect with my feminine side more profoundly.
I've spent quite a while researching masculine and feminine energy and understanding the sense of each one.
Let´s begin by defining both principles...firstly, male energy:
It´s the aspect where power, focus, self-control and direction looms from. It is goal and result oriented - constantly searching for the best means to complete the result necessitated. Manly energy schemes, organizes, directs and takes charge of any circumstances to encourage victory.
This time let's focus on female energy:
This force is passionate, free, a life force and produces space for feelings and emotions to be vivid. The feminine essence is a state motivator that savours uncovering the senses. It's made to come to life by sound, color, taste, smell, touch and intuition because it longs to experience love through all things and everyone.
Alright...so you now have a brief clarification of each.
Have you observed how living in a environment where pursuing time limits and achieving objectives has made us lose touch of our state of "being" and "sensation"? We are so busy scheming with our thoughts and feelings that we are inclined to ignore our emotions, our senses, and our systems. We are walking about practically not in touch!
Fortunately, some of us study yoga courses, dance lessons and cooking lessons. Or we study playing an instrument...anything to take us back into what our core being longs for to experience being nourished...loved.
What is meant by the term love?
Our system and our center long to be cherished. Deep within ourselves us we desire to be recognized for who we are, stripped away from the suits we wear to embody our professional and authoritative existence.
Under each suit, lives a woman...a sensual woman who cherishes every aspect of her physique, thoughts, feelings and essence. The woman is vulnerable and longs to feel secure enough to submit to the love of a man without worry that he will be scared by a woman crying in front of him.
We have turned into ambition- obsessed women who can complete any goal we follow, yet could have neglected that our womanly essence longs to be cared for.
So, how can we do this?
We revel our reason for being!
I've realised using your female essence, body language and tenderness to encourage and entice a man to be in touch with his heart and yours while appreciating the significance of your own wants, and being in harmony with your reason for being.
Therefore, allure and invite, and keep your needs in the vanguard of your thoughts and hack his balls off with LOVE once he fails to behave accordingly.
Not exactly. Realise this isn't a call to nag a man because you will likely revolt him and it's not a call to avoid stating what you long for because he won´t cherish your worth. It is a call to come from a place of gentleness (because everyone is trying to do their best) and to fight for your ideals.
So how does all this relate to sensuality and body gestures?
EVERY LITTLE THING!
This led me understand that me as a woman is more than just teasing or flirting with a man...I'm guiding him to his center. Most men find this really challenging...it is not an aspect of the male force. And what makes a woman beautiful and pleasing is her ability to guide a man to his core, his heart initially through her body gestures and most especially through her kindness.
This has provided me a revitalized awareness of purpose...guiding from my feminine energy!
This is the reason why body gestures and sensuality is immensely crucial to learn. It made me realize how being in my body guides me to be in harmony with my feminine energy.
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