Some profound breathing and one or a couple of of hits on my skull (my Italian upbringing got in useful), usually placed me back in control. This all... "How would I resolve it? How can I prevent this? How can I make the situation better?...was shutting my feelings all the way down. I was detaching with the very essence of me that is woman...my heart.
So at this point, I had to figure out why I kept disconnecting from my feelings. (I realise, it seems like I have a real issue).
During my attempt, I understood a way to be in touch with my feminine side more profoundly.
I've spent quite a while getting to know masculine and feminine energy and understanding the sense of each one.
Let´s start by defining both ideas...first of all, male energy:
It´s the aspect where power, focus, self-control and direction emerges from. It is target and result oriented - consistently searching for the best means to finish the result necessitated. Masculine energy schemes, organizes, leads and takes charge of any circumstances to encourage triumph.
This time let's focus on female energy:
This force is passionate, free, a life force and produces space for feelings and emotions to be vivid. The feminine essence is a state motivator that savours uncovering the senses. It's made to come to life by sound, color, taste, smell, touch and intuition because it longs to experience love through all things and everyone.
Alright...so you now have a short description of each.
Have you noticed how living in a environment where pursuing time limits and achieving ambitions has made us lose touch of our state of "being" and "sensation"? We are so hectic scheming with our thoughts and feelings that we are inclined to overlook our emotions, our senses, and our systems. We are walking about virtually not connected!
However, some of us learn yoga courses, dance lessons and cooking lessons. Or we study playing an instrument...anything to take us back into what our core being longs for to experience being nourished...cherished.
What is meant by the word love?
Our body and our heart long to be treasured. Deep within us we desire to be known for who we are, taken out of the suits we wear to embody our professional and authoritative existence.
Beneath each suit, lives a woman...a real woman who cherishes every aspect of her body, thoughts, feelings and essence. The woman is vulnerable and longs to feel secure enough to submit to the love of a man with no anxiety that he will be scared by a woman crying in front of him.
We have turned into ambition- obsessed women who can achieve any goal we pursue, yet could have neglected that our feminine essencelongs to be cared for.
So, how can we do this?
We revel our reason for being!
I've realized using your womanly essence, body language and tenderness to encourage and lure a man to be in touch with his heart and yours while appreciating the significance of your own desires, and being in harmony with your reason for being.
Therefore, attract and invite, and hold your needs in the vanguard of your thoughts and hack his balls off with LOVE once he fails to act accordingly.
Not exactly. Realize this isn't a call to nag a man because you will likely revolt him and it's not a call to avoid telling what you long for because he won´t recognize your value. It is a call to come from a place of gentleness (because everybody is trying to do their best) and to fight for your ideals.
So how does all this relate to sensuality and body language?
EVERY LITTLE THING!
This guided me understand that me as a woman is more than just teasing or flirting with a man...I'm guiding him to his center. Most men find this really hard...it is not an aspect of the male force. And what makes a woman attractive and pleasing is her ability to guide a man to his center, his heart initially through her body gestures and most especially through her kindness.
This has provided me a revitalized awareness of purpose...guiding from my feminine energy!
This is the reason why body gestures and sensuality is immensely crucial to learn. It made me realize how being in my body guides me to be in harmony with my feminine essence.
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