I Want My Girlfriend Back - What Can I Do To Change Her Mind?

Aug. 11, 2010 - PRLog -- Just about every man that has ever had a relationship before in his lifetime understands what you are feeling right now. There has been a time in almost all men's lives when they have tried to win back an ex girlfriend, only to find that whatever tactics that they were going to try just did not work out all that well. For most men, this is where it all ends, and they assume that they just have to move on and try to find another woman to date.

In some situations, that will be the best answer. However, there are times when a reconciliation would be the best answer and that is where you might be right now. Of course, you still have to figure out a way to make her want you back, because she certainly is not going to just call you out of the blue and say that she wants to get back together.

Here are some tips on what you can do if you keep on wanting to know how to get your girlfriend back:

1. Don't weigh too much on getting her back.

Though it might seem like the right thing to do, putting too much of your thoughts on trying to get her back can end up making you feel overwhelmed. The emotions can be too much sometimes, and you need to take a little "vacation" from thinking about her. This is healthy, and it is effective. When you come with a refreshed mind, you can make much better decisions on what you should be doing to win her back.

2. Don't limit yourself just to your ex girlfriend.

Now, in most situations, a break up can be reversed, but there are times when it just will not happen. If all of your focus is on your ex girlfriend, you are going to end up being a man with NO options at all. And that is a lonely feeling. Broaden your scope and pay attention to all the other women that are out there. You won't feel as desperate which is good, but also, you won't be out of luck if you don't get her back.

3. To change her mind, you have to change how you act with her.

Look, if you keep on doing the same routine over and over, nothing is going to change and she is not going to want you back. You need to start acting like a man with confidence, a man that knows he can win her back, and you need to flirt with your ex girlfriend. Don't get hung up on conversations about how to get back together, tease her and have fun with her.

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