Are you upset with your child’s persisting defiant behavior?Do you find it difficult to handle him

July 1, 2010 - PRLog -- Are you upset with your child’s persisting defiant behavior? Do you find it difficult to handle him? If yes, your child is certainly suffering from any of these two major behavior disorders, Reactive attachment disorder and Oppositional defiant disorder. Comprising of a dedicated team of counselors, RAD Consultancy has developed appropriate methods to cure such severe psychological disorders. Common among the children of 5 to 6 years, these problems are counterproductive to their cognitive growth and development. Reactive attachment disorder is basically related to the concept of ‘Attachment’, which is defined as an affectionate bond between two people. The bond shared by an infant with his mother is perhaps the strongest one. An infant feels safe and secure with his mother. This trustworthy relationship comes to an end when the child is shifted in the hands of another care giver. In such a case, he feels insecure and cannot develop that same bond with the new care giver. He has to suffer a traumatic situation during this sensitive age period that makes him acquire detachment. He is definitely not capable of understanding the ongoing phase. Hence, he feels disappointed.    

Another major reason behind Attachment disorder is the careless attitude shown by the parents towards their children. When the child is continuously ignored and his physical as well as emotional needs are neglected, he is unable to tolerate it and starts getting detached from others. He avoids coming in close contact with a person and does not respond to the lovable behavior shown by anyone. In this way, the child faces difficulty in developing trustable or long lasting relationships. Genuine affection almost vanishes from his innocent instinct. Such symptoms surely indicate an imminent harm to his psychological progress. The pain of having not been sufficiently attended by his parents or care giver gets locked in his mind forever, which ultimately leads to the cultivation of aggressive attitude in him. A stage comes when he incurs Oppositional defiant disorder, one of the most prevalent child behavior problems. It is usual that all kids and especially teenagers exhibit defiant behavior. They instantly get angry and talk back most of the times. They seldom respect their parents, elders or senior authorities like teachers and are always ready to enter into any kind of argumentation. Keep a note whether such qualities are often shown by your child. This could be an issue of major concern as it can ruin the family, academic and social life of your out of control child.

Children with oppositional defiance are extremely stubborn in nature. They are intensely filled with annoyance and resentment. They are desirous of taking revenge whenever possible. They defy rules, regulations or instructions and often blame others even when it is their own mistake. They always dominate others and want their decision or say to be implemented. Unable to judge the difference between right and wrong, such defiant children never feel pleased on being pampered by anyone. Sometimes, the home atmosphere of a child may also be responsible for his behavior. Some parents micromanage whatever is being done by their children. They interfere into each and every detail related to them. This may not be acceptable by them and they may fall under the category of defiant children. Another case could be the freedom given by parents whereby the child may start misusing such an advantage and become disobedient. Whatever the case may be, RAD Consultancy offers modern RAD treatment as well as ODD treatment to transform the unfavorable attitude of your child. Instead of organizing long counseling sessions, we believe in coaching the mothers of such children. The mothers are imparted training over telephone every week, through which a quick change is noticeable in their overall personality.

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RAD Consultancy offers a unique approach to treat Reactive Attachment Disorder(RAD), Conduct Disorder (CD), Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), Bipolar Disorder (BPD), Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) or depression.