Kevin Elek, the Love Doctor:
*Feeling Lost about your Ex Girlfriend?*
As men, we have all felt this feeling before: you're in a happy relationship, and one day, everything starts to slip. You don't know what to do - things are just not the same anymore, but whenever you bring it up, all you get is a solitary "It's nothing, honey," or "Nothing's wrong." Then suddenly, you're hit with it. Those four words every man dreads - "We need to talk."
How can we overcome this? When faced with difficult situations like this, we sometimes question ourselves, why is the world so unfair to us? What did we do to deserve this kind of treatment? More commonly asked though, is "How can I get my ex girlfriend back?"
We know exactly how you feel. As men, we have been in the exact same situation as you. But we didn't settle for failure.
*The Love Doctor*
After a tough breakup with my first serious long term relationship of over 2 years, I was left devastated. For weeks and weeks, the only thing I would be able to do other than moping at my office desk would be to force myself downstairs to eat, so that I wouldn't starve to death. I missed my ex girlfriend like crazy, but I also felt like I hated her. How dare she do this to me?
One of my friends came up to me one day, and we had a heart to heart. I realized something that day - my ex girlfriend was not to blame; in fact, I am the one to blame. My friend introduced me to the pick-up artist community. Now, don't let that name be a scarlet letter - these men are dedicated to analyzing the male-to-female interactions in the world, and using their findings to their advantage.
I won't go into detail, but let's just say this was a revelation to me. I learned that sometimes, we blame others out of self-defence. We are proud creatures, especially as men, and we do not like to admit that we are wrong. Instead of blaming my ex girlfriend, I knew that I had to change myself. She left me for a reason, and the reason may very well be that I was not a good enough man for her.
So what? I became a better man. Today, I am known as "The Love Doctor" in various pick-up artist communities, and have over 500 phone numbers snatched from beautiful women around the world.
I felt like I had to share my knowledge. So I started Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back, a program dedicated to helping my fellow men with their problems. What is it? Well, it'll help you get your ex girlfriend back.
*Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back*
Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back is a small personal business, founded by myself and a few fellow pick-up artists. We have been interviewing heartbroken men for almost 2 years, and meticulously analyzing the situations in which the break-ups occurred.
We checked up on our interview-ee's a few months after their interviews. We were shocked - 97% of them had attempted to get back together with their ex girlfriends, and out of those people, only 3% successfully got their ex girlfriends back. The others reported that their ex girlfriends were "heartless b**ches."
We decided that the situation was a lot worse than we expected. Men should not be blaming women for their own failures - and especially not in such a derrogatory manner.
From our extensive research, we are now developing a program to guide you into getting your ex girlfriend back. This program is a series of DVD's and E-Books written by the founders of Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back, titled The Ex Manual. The scheduled release date for this series is mid Summer 2010, but we have already released a few test copies to our clients.
We are extremely pleased to announce that out of 50 men who tested our products out, 45 men successfully got their ex girlfriends back; 4 men got their ex girlfriend back, but realized they didn't want to be with them; only 1 man failed to get his ex back.
We are talking about 90-98% success rate! This Series is planned to be released FREE during its promotional period, so look out for it!
Check out our dedicated blog for more information - http://www.getyourexgirlfriend.com
*Some Fun Facts to Close*
We would like to share something with you readers before we close this article up. You may have seen people posting similar lists all over the Internet, but this list is backed by research. Our psychologists confirmed that biologically, women indeed look for certain attributes in a mate. And here they are - 10 things girls LOVE about guys:
1) Humor. They say when you make a girl laugh, you're opening a door in her heart. So get that comedian side out, and fast!
2) Hygiene. Girls absolutely love good hygiene. If a guy can take good care of himself, he is more likely to be able to take good care of others.
3) Confidence. Girls love that alpha male, and they find it sexy when a guy is comfortable with himself.
4) Good Lifestyle. No smoking, no drinking, no drugs.
5) Ambition. Girls love a guy with a future. A good one.
6) Romance. "Hopeless romantics" are not as hopeless as you think - the girls dig it. It makes them feel special.
7) Family Man. If you're great with your own family, chances are you'll make a great dad!
8) Control. Girls want and need to be led and guided. Girls find it as a manly quality and love it, so don't be shy!
9) Fidelity. Loyalty is the biggest concern. If a girl can't trust you, you're done.
10) Passion. Girls love it when guys are passionate about something, whether it be football or your job.
Subconsciously, every woman looks for these qualities in a man - it's just our biological nature. Before you thinking about how to get your ex girlfriend back, think of how to improve yourself. Use this list as a guideline, and look out for more tips and advice - it'll be posted on our blog.
I hope to see all of you succeed in your love lives - we all deserve to be loved.
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Until then,
Kevin Elek - The Love Doctor
