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Follow on Google News | Terrible Twos | HappyHourMom.comarenting Coach, Carolyn Gatzke of Engage Today, shares her knowledge and advice on HappyHourMom.com. There is no such thing as the perfect parent and we all have questions for Super Nanny. So take a second and ask parenting coach Carolyn for advice!
By: HappyHourMom.com I am certain you have reached the first stage of disequilibrium which often begins at about the 18 month mark. Of course, you do say that your little one has been a fit thrower for a 4 or 5 months – this may be indicative of a strong personality or the fact that she gets results when she tantrums (or both), definitely something to observe and consider. I ask you to think about what works best for you when you are mad and tired. For me, it is the opportunity to complain to someone who has a calm response, limited activity, and rest. I don’t want to be (and usually can’t be) cajoled out of my mood. I just need to get through it. The more the people around me try to entertain me the madder I get. Perhaps this was the case with Madelyn. When your child is melting down, I encourage you to find a space that is comfortable for both of you, and just let her melt – the toddler version of complaining. Let her vent without interruption, acknowledge her frustration and anger, keep her safe, and don’t allow her to be destructive. When she calms, put on quiet music, set books out that she can choose if she likes, or turn on a video. You do not need to engage in finesse parenting. It is not your job to heal all of her moods and provide a constant source of entertainment. Times of unhappiness are part of life, even in toddlerhood. It is your job to help her learn to cope, and that requires a high level of coping on your part, which means on some days you will both feel the need to throw yourselves on the floor kicking and screaming. P.S. Let her brush her own teeth and then finish up when she is “done.” # # # HappyHourMom.com provides ideas, inspiration and conversation to all things mom and baby related. From the latest in the news, to the hottest new products on the market, Happy HourMom.com is your go-to guide. After all, every mom deserves a happy hour! End
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