Are you not sure what went wrong? Are you frustrated that you’ve invested months or even years of your life, only to have to keep starting over? Does he or she need “space” or are they becoming distant?
In matters like this, there many factors to consider. The three most important things to remember when approaching this situation are:
* You can not control he or she’s actions. (You must agree with the breakup)
* You can control YOUR own behavior.
* Time is of the essence.
The right approach is to focus on your own behavior to stack the odds in your favor. If the situation is handled correctly, chances are he or she will come running back! It doesn't matter who broke up with who, by using a sane and common sense approach, you can stack the odds of resolution in your favor. Once you and your ex start communicating again, you can work on resolving what led to your breakup in the first place. If your ex really loved you, he or she is still thinking about you and it's not too late to get then back - yet.
