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Follow on Google News | Rows, Barneys, Squabbles, Tear Up, Arguments! Are they ALWAYS bad for your relationship?UK relationship advice service www.thecoupleconnection.net puts to rest common relationship myths that affect an increasing number of couples suffering from the added strain of the credit crunch.
By: Couple Connection Here are some everyday relationship myths that illustrate how vital communication is for couples and the whole of the family. “Having a good relationship with my partner means no arguing.” We are bombarded with images in the press of “perfect” couples thus reinforcing the common myth that a healthy relationship with your partner means one without arguments. In fact, arguments can be very healthy for your relationship. As unique individuals, it is only natural to have disagreements. The key is to make sure you argue constructively; “My partner doesn’t understand me” A very common statement made by a large number of people who are experiencing difficulties in their relationship. Remember, it maybe less about your partner not understanding you and more that you each have different viewpoints. It might be that you and your partner need to change the way you communicate with each other. “The kids don’t know there is a problem.” Children are very receptive to their environment and can pick up on the smallest changes in the atmosphere. For example, a recent survey carried out by Asda (July 2009) showed that 18% of parents thought their children worried about money, but in actual fact when children were asked the figure was 55% were worrying about money. A surprising result highlighting that children pick more from their environment than their parents often give them credit for. If you are parents as well as partners, help your children cope better… Explain – you are arguing but are trying to sort it out Reassure – it’s not their fault and you love them Try to argue better – follow our how to argue guide to help resolve your disagreements Communication is the vital ingredient in many successful relationships. Remember that all couples have disagreements; # # # The Couple Connection is a UK charity which provides relationship support and advice for couples. With a dedicated section on the recession http://thecoupleconnection.net/ End
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