Discreet Method To Guarantee Your Ex Return Your Call Without Begging

Sept. 10, 2009 - PRLog -- You already know by now that calling your ex is not a good idea right after break up, but guess what? You could risk sacrificing your pride for nothing. After your painstaking effort of playing cool and casual, your ex may reject any form of communication that you initiate, especially when you are the one dumped in the break up.

However, the next step to getting back with your ex after you've played the "play it cool" card well requires a bit of action - that is calling your ex. Surprised? Well the catch is that this delicate process must be carried out flawlessly, otherwise, it could undone all the previous effort that you put in. Therefore, you need to master this powerful trick to coax your ex to get in touch with you naturally, not because you call non-stop, because he/she want to.

First, you have to identify what sort of message you don't want to send to your ex. Messages that sound like this: "Pete, I knew you got my last 50 messages. And when I called, your sister said you were out with the boys. I have been trying to reach you for the past 3 days. Could you please, please, please at least return me call? I really have urgent matter to talk you." Generally, they will either plead their ex to call back or say that they have an urgent matter to discuss. Avoid this at all cost because you do not want to come across as needy and desperate, a position that put you in great disadvantage.

Luckily, you will not make the same mistake as most less-informed people by following this little trick to make your ex return your call without having to beg for it. Instead of subjecting yourself to the pain of hoping and waiting, there is a secret way to guarantee that ex will feel compelled to call you back. It so powerful yet awfully simple you'll kick yourself for not thinking of this yourself. See, deep inside, we have the natural instinct to find out what people are saying about ourselves. This is the key that you must use to your advantage if you want your ex to return your call.

Instead of a leaving a sob message, train your voice to sound calm and casual. Put your message like this, ""I've been thinking a lot during this time. I guess I really got to thank you in person. Do call back." If you want to be more mysterious then say something like, "I wanted to tell you this for a long time but I just do not know where to start. I guess I really should thank you, so call me."

Upon hearing this, your ex will wonder just what is it that you have to say, and to find out the truth, your ex have no choice but to return your call. However, your ex may also suspect that you are up to your usual pitiful, desperate self so make sure you sound really casual in your message. If you have to, practice a couple of times using a recorder and playback until you hear that you are absolutely calm and casual.

Then, you may have other questions such as what you should say to your ex when he or she finally return your call. This is only a small portion of the collection of proven tricks in The Magic Of Making Up, an online guide to help couples get back together that you cannot do without if you're serious about wanting your ex back. Don't take the chance in winning your ex back, as you may never get a second chance to do so.

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