Before you embark on the journey of winning your ex back however, you need to be sure that the relationship is worth saving before you take the next step.
If you are convinced that this is the route to take, the next logical step would be then to figure out a strategy to follow to get your ex back without alienating him or further pushing him away.
You need to act before too much time passes or he may be ready to move on to another relationship. However, you must not rush in where angels fear to tread too soon either.
There is a certain amount of time that you need to have lapse before you can put any of your strategies in action.
There are certain things that you need to do to get your ex back, but there are also certain things that you absolutely should not do.
Below follows a list of the things you can do and the things you should not do.
1. Agree with the break-up and act as if you are moving on. If there are any of his things left at your apartment, pack it up and have it delivered to him. Don't include a note in the parcel – he will get the message. And don't deliver the parcel yourself. Post it.
2. Give him some space – don't call him, text, stalk him or beg him to take you back. Don't contact him – at all. Wait for him to call.
3. If he does call, keep it short. Pretend you have someone else on the other line and tell him you will call him back – and then don't.
4. Improve yourself – get a new haircut, join a gym, get a new wardrobe, get a make over – positive improvements that will make you feel really good about yourself.
5. Make him your friend – act calm and casual around him as though nothing has happened and as though you are talking to a friend.
6. Make him feel admired again with a little bit of flirting without going over the top– just like it used to be in the beginning.
7. Go out and enjoy yourself. Hang out in the same places he does without attempting to make contact with him. Just let him see you getting around enjoying yourself and looking really good.
Not only will the above steps help you get your ex-back, it will help you get your self-confidence back. Once he sees how confident you are in yourself now that you are looking and feeling great, he will want to have you back in his life at all cost, especially if you have been doing point no 7!
Implementing these steps will take you a long way towards getting your ex back. However, if you want your efforts to be really effective in a short period of time you are probably going to need a bit of extra help. The Magic of Making Up will give you all the help you need to get him back in your arms again!
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