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Diane Rumbaugh
Rumbaugh Public Relations
2166 Flintridge Court
Thousand Oaks, CA 91362
805-493-2877
diane@rumbaughpublicrelations.com
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE: June 29, 2009
Change Your Marriage in One Week
Is Your Man a Toad Or A Prince?
Find Out in The Toad-to-Prince Contest
MALIBU, CALIF.--What if you could watch your man transform from a Couch Toad back into the Prince he once was in only one week--and receive a $1,000 travel voucher for a romantic getaway in the process? That's the offer--and the challenge--in the "Toad to Prince" contest, underway through August 31.
Participants in the contest are given five proven suggestions on how they can rediscover the Prince they first fell in love with. Contestants pick one of five options, put it into practice for a week, and then share what happened through e-mail or video. A winner will be selected based on originality, adherence to the contest theme and the changes that takes place by following the suggestions.
The five suggestions, taken from the book, "Your Man is Wonderful" by Dr. Noelle Nelson are:
1. Catch your man in the act of doing something right
Often, we’re so preoccupied with what our guys are doing wrong, that we ignore or take for granted what they’re doing right. Unfortunately, faced with constant criticism, many men give up, and retreat to the safety of the couch.
For one week, focus on what your man is doing right – whether it’s helping you with the kids, taking the trash out, giving you a hug – whatever it is, thank him and praise him for it. Just set aside, for now, your criticisms and focus on appreciating all that he does right.
2. Respect your man’s biology
Men’s brains are wired differently than women's, and once you understand and appreciate that, you will be much more successful in communicating with your guy.
For one week, respect his hard-wiring. Instead of saying “We have to talk,” which immediately spikes men’s danger signals, say, “What do you think about . . .” and when he answers, just say, “That’s interesting, thanks.” Wait until later in the day to share your thought: “You know, I’ve been thinking about what you said. How about if . . .” In other words, give him the space and time to mull it over. Refrain from attacking his opinion. Look for common ground within what he says and build the conversation from there.
3. Prime the love pump with praise
Did you know that a primary reason men have affairs is they don’t feel appreciated by their spouse? A steady diet of loving attention and praise is how to revitalize any relationship.
For one week, quit harping on his flaws, and put your attention squarely on anything you can genuinely appreciate about your mate. Whether it’s “I love the feel of you in the morning” or “What a great job you did on that project” or “Mm-hmm, you are one sexy guy,” tell your man, with words, with touch, with little notes how much you value and appreciate him.
4. Throw a welcome home party, every night
Believe it or not, what matters most to your man, is to see you smile. With all the challenges life throws at us, most of the time we're not thinking about that when he or you walk in the door at night.
For one week, let him know how special he is when he or you get home at night. Just for a moment, drop everything, and give him a great big smile, a hug. He may at first be bemused, as in “Who are you and what have you done with my wife?” but keep it up, and watch what happens as you restore these good-feels between you.
5. Say “Yes,” “I agree,” or “OK” – a lot.
Ever stopped to think how often you say “No,” “I don’t want that,” “Why are you doing it that way?” to your man? Too often, we insist that our way is the only acceptable way to be or do or think. Your guy can’t possibly reveal the Prince he can be when he’s constantly berated.
For one week, try it his way. In other words, unless it’s something that seriously interferes with your well-being, say “Yes,” whether in words or simply by going along with his idea. If he stacks the dishes differently from you, let it be. Wants to cuddle when you’re not in the mood? Let yourself relax and you may find you get in the mood. Comes up with a zany idea you’d usually scoff at? Say “That’s interesting, tell me more.” You’ll be making it so much easier for your man to be your Prince.
"You will be amazed at how just one week can give you a jumpstart on improving your relationship,"
Click on www.toadtoprince.com to learn more and enter the contest.
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