Attachment
Every teen knows that flirting can be great fun. But it’s a lot more than just playing games. It’s a universal, functional, and essential element of the survival of humanity as a whole. If not for flirting, we wouldn’t be here now, hanging around the locker, swapping notes on technique. So without further delay, let’s dive in to share some pointers on ways to stir it up in the gene pool:
Listen. Focusing on what the other person is saying is the most seductive thing in the world.
Smile. Smiling secretes hormones that make you feel good.
Think positive. Talk yourself into certainty, confidence, and assurance.
Stay calm. Like an FM radio station, if you broadcast calm and cool, you’re listener will be receiving that.
Be comfortable with who you are. Natural flirts include Johnny Depp, George Clooney and even Angelina Jolie.
Don’t limit your efforts to people you’re already attracted to. Be open to connecting with people randomly. It’s a great way of building up your flirting skills risk-free. And you never know . . .
Maintain easy eye contact. Successful flirting is all in the eyes. And watch for dilating pupils. And winks.
Don’t be afraid to use props. Dogs, hats, and dancing dinner rolls are natural conversation starters.
Go along with compliments. If a guy admires your outfit resist the urge to say, “What, this old rag? I bought it at the Goodwill Thrift store. They practically paid me to take it away.” Instead, just be gracious, say thank you, and move on.
Fend off any tendancy to tell self-effacing loser stories, however entertaining and witty you think they might be. Stay playful, light-hearted, and spontaneous. Never mention past relationships.
Never underestimate the power of a good flirt.
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