Attachment
Valentine’s Day celebrated in February each year is the traditional day which lovers normally express affection, gifts, thoughts and endless romance. It’s a special day for married couples and significant others. “But it ensnares the cheater.” insists Bill Mitchell, author of The More You Know – Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship.
“Valentine’
Unlike the rest of the year the days surrounding Valentine’s Day ensnare a cheating spouse like no other timeframe. Any blunder, oversight or slip up is costly. There are five vital signs exposing a cheating heart. They are:
1. Initiating secret communications. The assortment includes covert messages, emails, text messages, e-cards, hang-ups, phone calls from closets or driveways, because cheaters must communicate by trickery.
2. Sharing tangible gifts: Purchases of flowers, candles, chocolates, cards, lingerie, virtual gifts, personalized gifts, little sweethearts, internet gifts, music, games, poems, treasured keepsakes, whimsical romance, adult gifts, CD’s, alcohol, or the like, can and do imply inclination and romantic expressions.
3. Change in behavior: Being preoccupied, distant, and anxious. They utilize an excuse or argument to escape. Expect to be denied access to informational sources like cell phones, PDA’s, computers, briefcases, wallets, purses, cameras, or vehicles. A fresh focus on their appearance and dress is the norm.
4. Finances:
5. Perplexed by time: Concocting an activity, strange meeting or agenda near Valentine’s Day. Disappearing acts, excuses, lateness, delays call for scrutiny. Cheating spouses wish they could be two places at once. Superheroes they are not! Instead, they just lie about their whereabouts.
“These vital signs and others are less important than meeting legal precedents of infidelity. Once in hand, circumstances totally change.” Mitchell says. “Never base you're entire discovery effort on warning signs instead sure up your position with evidence that would bring victory in court.” Bill Mitchell says. “This advice is not only unwise, chancy but very costly.” adds Mitchell.
“The real question is distinguishing between fact and fiction.” says Infidelity Expert Bill Mitchell. “The more you understand cheaters, the easier detection becomes. Adultery is both predicable and discoverable. You must know how to play this complicated game in order to become empowered.” adds Infidelity Expert Bill Mitchell.
“There’s no universally correct and incorrect answer to obtain evidence. You need to know what solves your personal mêlée. Each assignment requires a specific action plan and facts worth pursuing. More importantly, investigating infidelity hinges on how one reacts to it. Too often, serious mistakes “tip off” cheaters thus further convoluting this calamity.” says Mitchell. Taking advantage of the unique opportunity Valentine’s Day presents is a winning strategy. I highly recommend stepping up your efforts this holiday. After all the more you know the better off you will be and quickly.” Mitchell adds.
Having solved over 2000 cases of infidelity and author of The More You Know – Getting the evidence and support to investigate a troubled relationship Bill Mitchell has gathered the information, tips and tools you need to help you get out of limbo and end the doubt - once and for all. From cover to cover this book supplies insight for private investigators to improve their skills, no matter how many years in business.
Bill Mitchell, 7-Day Detective has been referred to as “the Dr. Phil of private investigators.”
© 2009 Bill Mitchell
