The Hikmah Of Polygyny Marriage
Many people are satisfied with doing Polygamy before marriage. They lost it to their girlfriends, not to their wifes. So many people are becoming "Divorce agents," but they resist Polygyny. So too with people who might be able to do Islamic Polygyny but their knowledge do not reach the perfectness of it. Polyandry will cause sickness, but not with Polygyny.
Polygamy did not come from Islam, Polygyny did.
Rasulullah said that in Polygyny are forbidden to marry two sisters at once and also forbidden to marry her auntie.
The wifes will be rewarded by Allahu Ta'ala for their patience, and the husband will be rewarded by Allahu Ta'ala for his justice.To become family.
1. Not the idea of choosing 1 after feeling the best of all women over 1 shot.
2. Not the idea of “not marrying with woman,” because of becoming a celebrity, but instead to “marry the fans,” so that you could make many women happy.
3. Makes man more mature in Din, and enhancing the ability to lead people.
4. After the husband feel the pleasure created from Polygyny, he will create better leadership in his life and this make his life better.
5. Man learn by leading the women where man will use his intellect and justice in his Polygyny marriage.
6. Polygyny marriage praises Allahu Ta’ala and Islam
7. In Islam there is this idea that man must marry minimum 2 wifes. That man is for 2 women to 4. And firstly that must be marry is an orphan:
QS.An Nisa (4):3. If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans marry women of your choice two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them) then only one or (a captive) that your right
hands possess. That will be more suitable to prevent you from doing injustice.
8. Verse in Al Qur’an about Polygyny:
An Nisa(4):129 Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women even if it is your ardent desire: but turn not away (from a woman) altogether so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air). If ye come to a friendly understanding and practice self-restraint Allah is Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful.
9. When a man marry women he will find that in women, the characteristics that will lessen his arrogance as a man, because he needs them as in this verse:
QS.Ar Rum(30):21
10. Because 1 man needs 2 women till 4 and becoming loyal to them, while women only need 1 man and becoming loyal to him.
11. The idea of splitting love doesn’t exist in Islam, because Islam does not allow twosome, threesome or foursome.
12. Islam really teach husband to do Jima’ only when his wife is pure, not when she is on Haid and Nifas. And allows the husband to do that by every ways, as long as it is still on the hole for child birth.
13. The solution for men who have a special liking to women. Rasulullah said “Women are married because of 4,… marry those because of her religion.”
Choose women as your wifes, those who have good Akhlaq and sound Aqidah.
Al Hadits already said that man who couldn't marry to fast. So it is not Fardhu 'ain to marry for people who does not have the ABILITY to marry.
This belongs to everything, not just to Polygyny. Eventhough people say again and again about Poygyny to satisfy ones ego and desire, then that does not invalidate the Polygyny genes inside men, only saying that they must marry 2 wifes if they are ABLE to, and MUST BE fair or they MUST NOT do Polygyny.
So they will think about their ability and after they are able to do Polygyny, they must think about being JUST and FAIR and if they believe that they have the ability and the akhlaq, then they must do Polygyny.
While it is also true that Polygyny is not famous amongs Muslim, until Mr.Abdul Karim Naik even said on one of his lectures that on some year, Polygyny of Hinduists were 5%, while by Muslim only 4%.
And now look that the Hinduists did not limit their POLYGYNY to 4 women.
Polygyny is Fardhu Muakkad for the above reasons and conditions, or even Fardhu 'ain, especially when this Sunnah is dead, no point will emerge from debating whether all the Prophets did it or not, because muslim only allowed for 4, not 100 as Sulaiman 'alaihi Salaam or 10 as Muhammad Shalallahu 'alaihi Sallam.
The idea of 1 woman for 1 man is out, as it is not what Allah wanted from Muslims, and the Predestination of Allahu Ta'ala is that Muslim will have at least 2 more wifes in Jannah (Heaven), so Polygyny will be the fate of every Muslim in the earth and in the Hereafter forever.
thanks for the nashihah, could you tell the difference between Fardhu Muakkad and Fardhu 'Ain or you have to ask Ulama like syaikh Salim bin Ied al Hilali, because shalat Idul Fitri is Fardhu muakkad according to him.
So many men are monogamous, but that doesn't make Polygyny as out of man's genes, just as now you see a sissy, is the masculinity out of his genes, come on.
Al Hadits already threatened for people who aren't FAIR in Polygyny, but incase you MISCONCEPT about fairness, Allahu Ta'ala spoke:
An Nisa(4):129 Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women even if it is your ardent desire: but turn not away (from a woman) altogether so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air). If ye come to a friendly understanding and practice self-restraint Allah is Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful.
In Jannah there aren't any IBADAH anymore eventhough they are patient and try not be jealous of the husband's Polygyny with 70 wifes in Jannah, and in there, the Polygyny are eternal and for eternity, while the patience of the wifes on earth who are being in Polygyny, now that's the one gonna be rewarded by Allahu Ta'ala.
The Polygyny on earth has its limit, while on Jannah, that could be more than with 71 wifes.
Rasulullah said "A MARRIAGE feast which only invite RICH PEOPLE without poor people, it is a rebellion to Allah and His Rasul(Adabuz Zifaf by syaikh Nashir Al Albaani.
There are many Muslimat married with a Christian men now.
Do Polygyny to few Shalihatun, not with Kafir women.
Rasulullah said that near Al Qiyamah, 1 man will support 40 women, what do you think of that?
That is the result of war, keep that in mind.
Help other Muslimat by marriage is a modest thing. I tell ye what is inside women minds, they feel okay with you're marrying them 2 till 4, but if ye make girlfriends out of them or have a wife and a girlfirend, they will surely angry and will divorce thee. Keep that in your heart.
Ibn Mas’ud Radhiyallahu 'anhu said: If I only had ten days to live and I knew that I would die at the end of them, and I had any desire to get married, I would get married, for fear of fitnah (temptation)
He said this when he already had a wife.
It was narrated that Sa’id ibn Jubair said: Ibn ‘Abbaas Radhiyallahu 'anhu said to me: “Have you gotten married?”
I said: “No.”
He said: “Get married, for the best of this ummah are the ones with the most wives.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5069).
Polygyny obviously will make ye to put more attention on the benefits of marriage and put your attention on Muslimat who were married with Kafir men.
Not married because ye don't have any ability do not make ye sinners but forgetting about the Muslimat who married with Kafir men are Haraam. When choosing 1 Kafir women or a fasiq one instead of 2 till 4 Shalihatun;
What's the MOTIVATION for that?
