Chances are no one you know can help you learn to pick up women. Your friends are probably just as clueless as you are, and your family is of no help at all. Even those "Dating Experts" you see on TV are full of it, because they have to cater to the feminist media to keep their careers on track! (And as we all know, the mainstream media doesn't like helping guys get laid!)
Bottom line: Picking up women is not a politically-
If you want to get started right away, you're going to need some practical advice that really works! Luckily, you've found this article! So let's get to it...
First of all, let's cover what you DON'T need to pick up women.
You DON'T have to be "male model" good looking.
This is a big mistake most men make. Understand that about 85% of women actually care more about how a man can make them FEEL than how the man actually LOOKS.
So if you don't think you're a very attractive guy, don't worry! There's still hope for you.
Next, you DON'T have to drive a fancy car, or spend a lot of money!
Many of the best ladies men I know never spend more than $30 on a date - heck, some of them don't even own a car! (And if they do, it usually isn't a very nice one!)
If a girl really likes you, she's not going to care how much money you make or spend on her. And the key to picking up women is to get them to like you, right?
Finally, you DON'T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.
The secret is to have a great personality - this will make any other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you obsolete!
When you know the right way to talk to women, nothing else matters.
You may not be able to have phenomenal success with these tactics right away if you're just starting out. But if you take the time to start applying these tactics and actually learn from your experiences, you'll find your success with women will dramatically improve.
In order to learn the quickest, you'll want to go out as often as you can - particularly when you're first starting. You don't have to go to nightclubs or other high-pressure environments to meet women, but they are great "practice grounds" because there are SO MANY women there to meet and talk to.
Despite where you choose to go, you need to set aside some time every day to go out and pick up women - you'll get better the more times you do it!
You probably won't have much success at first when you start going to clubs, but other people will actually start notice a change in you as your confidence goes up. Every success and failure in nightclubs will also helps to reinforce the things you need to do when you're picking up women, and the things you need to avoid.
Remember: With Experience Comes MASTERY.
And what you're doing when you go out to clubs and bars to pick up women is gaining experience!
You're going to want to try and look as good as you can when you go out to gain this valuable experience with women.
(Notice here that I'm not saying you have to be "good looking." I'm saying you need to "look good." There is a big difference between the two. You don't have any say about what you look like, but you DO have a say in your appearance - your hairstyle, the clothes you wear, what cologne you put on, etc.)
Take the time to dress as nice as you can. Find clothes that look good on you and tailor them to fit. If you're not into fashion and don't know where to start, ask a female friend who's very fashion conscious to help you find the right types of clothes.
It's true that you don't need fancy threads to meet girls, but why not make it easier by wearing nice clothes, why wouldn't you do it? Besides, looking good will also make you feel more confident!
Be on the lookout for opportunities to do pickup. You can find attractive women just about anywhere. And if you notice that she's given you the eye, it would almost be a sin not to start talking to her!
Finally, every good pick-up follows a structure. Its a series of steps you can actually REPEAT time and time again and get similar results.
Here's the structure:
Find the girl.
Approach and meet her.
Start Talking and Gain Rapport.
Build Attraction.
There you go - four simple steps is all you need! If you can find, meet, and gain rapport with women, you'll find that you can build attraction with them easily.
Subscribe for Joseph Matthew's complimentary Meet Women Secrets newsletter for all the latest secrets and techniques for meeting and seducing women. Joseph Matthews is widely recognized as an expert on how to pick up women: http://www.bestplaceonthenet.com/
