The ‘secret,’ says Friedman is in the woman’s choice to feel sexy and to allow their sexual energy to radiate. She says that the under representation of larger women in the media has left many bigger women feeling unattractive and un-sexy when they don’t need to be.
“There are many wonderful, sexy men that prefer a bigger woman – we must stop allowing the media to dictate to us what is possible and acceptable. If you are willing to accept and love yourself, the world will follow suit. The real men will respond to your curves and your confidence!” says Friedman.
Friedman’s new Plus Size Plum blog will deal with the real issues that BBW’s face in their daily lives, from love and relationships to fashion and style.
“As a group we have to coordinate our efforts to persuade the media to represent us as fascinating, stylish and sexy. The media needs to re-think beauty so plus size women are included in that mix,” says Friedman.
Friedman says that women who are in relationships need to stop punishing their lovers because of their own hang ups about their body. “Your lover is with you for a reason,” she says “yet many women still withhold that sexual energy from their lovers because of their self-consciousness about their bodies. Ladies, its time to be proud of what you’ve got!”
The article, called Plus Size Love: How to Attract Great Men and Seduce Your Lover, can be seen in full at http://plussizeplum.com/
About Plus Size Plum: Plus Size Plum is a retailer of plus size lingerie designed to accentuate and flatter the bodies of full-figured women. The Plus Size Plum blog tackles issues that big, beautiful women face in their daily lives including love and relationship issues, to fashion and style solutions.
