Pains of an Abused Woman

July 3, 2007 - PRLog -- I’m leaving you………I don’t know when
But I’m leaving you

I’m loving you……..I don’t know why
But I’m loving you

I’m crying for you…..I don’t know how
But I’m crying because of you

I’m dying for you……I don’t know when
But If I keep staying here I’ll be dead.


How often do we say that we are leaving?  How often do we say that this is it….no more…..this is the last time??  

Too often we make promises to ourselves to end this horrible cycle, but too often do we forget the pain when the “scar” heals.

NOTHING will get better until you realize what you are facing and that you are not facing it alone.  So many women and men fall into the trap of trying to stay in a relationship because he/she wants to make it “better”.  We think if we love harder that we can change the person that we are with.  The sad truth is that we can not “love” the other person into loving us.  We must first love ourselves to realize that what we are receiving from the person we think loves us is not really love at all.  That person who call us names, shouts at us, hits on us……and so many more painful things is not the love of our life, but indeed a conspirator to murder.  They might not pull the trigger, but they hand you the “gun” and force you to believe that you are nothing………..so are you going to pull the trigger?     Or will you take my hand and let me help us get through this together?  

If anyone needs immediate assistance you can call the New Jersey Coalition for Battered Woman at 1800-572-7233 or email them at http://www.njcbw.org

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