Fear Of Rejection Can Often Be Overcome By Learning New Behaviors Says Author Of Self Help Booklet

March 28, 2007 - PRLog -- Royane Real, author of several self help books and reports available at her website   http://www.lulu.com/real  has written a short self help booklet that she says offers hope to many people who suffer from a fear of being rejected by others.
 
Royane says, “People who have a fear of being rejected are often very lonely.  Despite the fact that they may have attractive personalities, their fear of rejection leads them to avoid social situations.  They have difficulty making new friends or starting romantic relationships.  A fear of being rejected can even limit their career prospects.  They may avoid taking part in social activities and be reluctant to apply for new jobs because of their intense fear of being rejected.”

According to Royane Real, “Nobody really enjoys being rejected, but for people who are socially confident, being rejected is a minor experience that is quickly forgotten.  However, for people who are shy and lonely, rejection can be a long lasting and  emotionally traumatic experience.  This can often lead to a fear of rejection that destroys a person’s confidence.”  

According to Royane Real, people who suffer from a fear of rejecton often have these characteristics:

1. They are more likely to experience social rejection as intensely painful and humiliating.  

2. They often assume the rejection is entirely their own fault.

3. They are more likely to interpret the experience of being rejected as proof that they are defective human beings.  

4. They are more likely to avoid social interactions in the future if they believe there is any chance that rejection might occur.  

5. They are more likely to believe that if they have been rejected by one person, they will continue to be rejected by everyone else, for the rest of their lives.

Royane Real says that if people don’t learn effective ways to deal with their fears of  rejection they may give up trying to have relationships altogether.

“The good news is that you can learn new techniques that can help you overcome your fear of being rejected and improve your confidence in social situations.  In my twelve page booklet I not only show readers the common reasons why people have rejection fears, but more importantly, I show readers new ways of thinking and new behaviors that many people have successfully used to overcome their fears of rejection.  By applying the techniques I reveal in my booklet, you can learn to overcome your rejection fears and improve your social confidence.”

Royane Real is a self help author who has written many articles, as well as reports and books with a focus on improving relationship skills and creating positive friendships.  Royane Real’s articles have been published on thousands of sites on the Internet.

The twelve page booklet “How You Can Overcome Your Fear of Rejection” is available for $4.00 and can be downloaded at http://www.lulu.com/real

Website: www.royanereal.com